New girlfriend to report
- Thread starter Inkara1
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I don't get why people do that. If you wanna get off without having a relationship, that's why we have hands, the internet, and vaseline.
Although, I'll admit that my hands are probably much more ideally suited to the challenge than most peoples'.
mate ..a sense of humour goes a long way!
best, BB
Altron
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Yea, it's like, if you agree "Let's have sex with no commitments", fine, just make sure that you both agree. It ain't right to have one partner thinking "Let's have a meaningful relationship" and the other thinking "Let's have sex and nothing else." because it won't work out, and people will be sad.
And it's like, that stuff ain't cool.
And what's with the double standards?
If I went around sleeping with every girl I could get my hands on, men would revere me like a god, and call me a pimp and a 'playa'.
If the girl I like went around sleeping with every guy she could get her hands on, people would hate her, and call her a slut and a whore.
How's it any fucking different?
It's why I EXTREMELY dislike being referred to as a pimp, even when it is meant as a compliment. It's like being called a shallow slut. It implies that I care more about appearances and sex than people. It implies that the girl I like is a prostitute.
It just ain't right.
Professur
Well-Known Member
I just mean don't be a lying conniving fuckwit just to get laid
Way to take all the fun out of it.
So what do you suggest a guy do when he does make it clear that it's for good sex and no strings ... and she falls for him anyways?
Walk away from the situation as soon as he figures out that she's falling. It's not his fault if he's straight up with his intentions and she falls anyway...but he IS at fault if he doesn't end it when he realizes that she's falling.
K62
New Member
I don't speak bullshit to them at all. I'm quite clear that I don't want a girlfriend right now because I'm away much of the time.
When I said that I enjoy the single life, I wasn't even (well not completely) talking about getting laid. It sucksss leaving a girlfriend for 4 months at a time, it's not fair to her, or me. We were both too young for that! I enjoy being able to go where ever I want, when ever I want.. for as long as I want with no obligations back home.
tonksy
New Member
That's her own damn fault, then. If a dude is upfront and honest he can feel comfortable with his actions.
She was stupid to send the flowers if you told her that you wanted no strings...
Have I developed feelings in a "no strings" situation before? Sure...everyone does atleast once in their life I think...but when you're not a crazy person you accept the fact that you're in too deep and you walk away...you don't send flowers...my vote is that she was crazy.
Yeah, look how cute you guys look!