It is a symbol of my Southern heritage, of which I am immensely proud (thus the screen name). It also stands for a defiance of oppressive government.
Let me preface this by saying that I currently work for my State government. I'm one of the few who feels that government is oversized, while working for that very government. Long story.
Yes, many many misguided individuals have usurped this flag and used it to stand for racist idealology. These individuals and groups are as misguided as are those who think the War of Northern Aggression was about slavery.
For years, I was ignorant about my own culture and heritage. I even tried to mask it. After a period of reflection, research, and observation I decided that, as an Appalachian American and a Southerner, I had not one thing to be ashamed of. Quite the opposite, in fact. The Southern Highlands of Appalachia are rich in culture that any group of people would be right in furthering. My accent, my upbringing, my roots...all are unique to this region. Why would anyone want to deny who they are and where they came from?
After much more research, I came to the conclusion that the Confederacy was right in most of their goals. The War was not about slavery...in fact, more slaves were kept in the Union states than in the Confederacy. The Confederate states did nothing illegal when they seceded from the Union...in fact, what they did was not only the same thing that the celebrated 13 colnies did, it was constitutionally protected. They had every right to secede. Only when the remaining Union states realized that without the South's cotton they had no clothes, that without the South's farm products they had no food...THEN did they attack and force at gunpoint those states to rejoin the Union. In other words, they wanted what we had but were unwilling to spread railroads (the principal mode of transportation) and the industries to those same states. Tell me THAT was right.
So yes, it is a very dear symbol to me, and one of the most misunderstood icons in the history of our nation. I see too much apathy today regarding keeping our Southern heritage alive. This apathy will lead to the death of the very ideals that make this region what is is. That bothers me. I take every opportunity to educate anyone who is willing to listen about the history that they won't teach in schools, including right here where it most matters. It holds zero racial meaning to me. It holds zero negativity to me. As a favorite saying of mine goes, if this flag offends you, you need a history lesson.
No offense taken on my end. I'm all too happy to explain it.