Spirit
Kissy Goddess
My hubby and I send our kids (except our deaf child) to an awesome school. It's the reason we live where we live. It also so happens to be a Catholic School - they teach respect and kindness and tolerance. There are never any fights in the school and all the older kids watch out for the younger ones (classes are from kindergarten to grade 9) They have one class a week in religion.
Hubby's Ex has started going to a Christian church that's across the street from where she lives. When she has the kids every other Sunday, she takes them with her. The kids (7 yr old girl and 9 yr old boy) spend thier time in Sunday school - the girl enjoys it well enough, but the boy, not so much - he's deaf and no one knows how to communicate with him. So, she sent Ian and I an email requesting that she come pick up the kids on our Sunday with them (they live full time with us) so she can take them to church with her, then, too. She was very kind in her email and said she'd exchange one of her mid-week visits for a Sunday visit. Anyways, it's really not my decision - the kids are thiers and it's is up to them.
What I am concerned about is this: we send her to a Catholic school and she attends a Christian church. Can this confuse a 7 yr girl who's searching for her own take on spirituality? Is this a good thing - giving her different... *flavors*?? Not only that, but the Sunday school teacher announced to all the little kids that "There is no Santa". That is SOOOO not her business to do.
Ian says he doesn't want to give up his Sundays with his kids - but is that fair for the kids? Do we let them decide if they want to go? Not only that, but it means getting up early to get them fed and dressed, then I have the Ex in MY home on a weekend that I want to relax and not have to put on the happy *oh yes you're so wonderful* face that I do (for the kids sake) whenever she comes to pick them up.
Bleh. I don't know what my take on all this is. Mixed, I guess.
Hubby's Ex has started going to a Christian church that's across the street from where she lives. When she has the kids every other Sunday, she takes them with her. The kids (7 yr old girl and 9 yr old boy) spend thier time in Sunday school - the girl enjoys it well enough, but the boy, not so much - he's deaf and no one knows how to communicate with him. So, she sent Ian and I an email requesting that she come pick up the kids on our Sunday with them (they live full time with us) so she can take them to church with her, then, too. She was very kind in her email and said she'd exchange one of her mid-week visits for a Sunday visit. Anyways, it's really not my decision - the kids are thiers and it's is up to them.
What I am concerned about is this: we send her to a Catholic school and she attends a Christian church. Can this confuse a 7 yr girl who's searching for her own take on spirituality? Is this a good thing - giving her different... *flavors*?? Not only that, but the Sunday school teacher announced to all the little kids that "There is no Santa". That is SOOOO not her business to do.
Ian says he doesn't want to give up his Sundays with his kids - but is that fair for the kids? Do we let them decide if they want to go? Not only that, but it means getting up early to get them fed and dressed, then I have the Ex in MY home on a weekend that I want to relax and not have to put on the happy *oh yes you're so wonderful* face that I do (for the kids sake) whenever she comes to pick them up.
Bleh. I don't know what my take on all this is. Mixed, I guess.