Government urges under-16s to experiment with oral sex

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A GOVERNMENT-backed course is encouraging pupils under 16 to experiment with oral sex, as part of a drive to cut rates of teenage pregnancy.

Family campaigners believe that the course, called A Pause, is having the reverse effect by exciting the sexual interest of children.

The scheme, which has been pioneered by Exeter University and is backed by the Departments of Health and Education, trains teachers to discuss various pre-sex “stopping points” with under-age teenagers.

It aims to reduce promiscuity by encouraging pupils to discover “levels of intimacy”, including oral sex, instead of full sexual intercourse.

More than 100,000 children are now taking the course at one in every thirty secondary schools. It forms part of efforts to tackle Britain’s teenage pregnancy rate, which is the highest in Western Europe.

Robert Whelan, director of the Family Education Trust, said he hoped that the Sexual Offences Bill, currently going through the House of Lords, would lead to the course being banned. A provision in the Bill would make it an offence for anyone to “arrange or facilitate the commission of a child sex offence”.

He said: “I don’t think anyone believes that teaching pupils about oral sex will stop them having full sex — it is more likely to make them want to try it, and it doesn’t protect them from sexually transmitted diseases.”

John Rees, programme manager for A Pause, said that he was keen to teach children that “it is acceptable simply to hold hands” and to discover different levels of intimacy.

“We make it clear that there are many ways to manage relationships — that it doesn’t all have to be about full sex,” he said. He added that he was “very worried” that the Bill would end the scheme.

Lynda Brine, a teacher from a Doncaster comprehensive who recently attended a training day for the course, says in today’s Times Educational Supplement that she was primed to deal with detailed questions about oral and anal sex. “I was amazed. Are these really the sort of questions to which we as a profession should be responding?” she writes.

“There was no framework for talking about responsibility or the emotional side of relationships. By following this course, I feel that teachers are implicitly supporting under-age sexual activity.”

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,2-585546,00.html
 
There is an undeniable logic to this. Think in terms of the "clean needle" programs. They are not promoting oral sex amongst the sexually inactive. Its about those who choose to be sexually active. Would you prefer that they have intercourse and risk pregnancy on top of everything else?
 
I don't believe that, I think that parents do still have some control over thier kids, if they are willing to try.
 
I can accept the goverment stepping in in place of justice for the individual which they have done with the court systems, but i can not accept their attempts at taking over parenting skills which is what this is.
 
I don't believe that, I think that parents do still have some control over thier kids, if they are willing to try.

I was speaking in collective terms. No one can truely expect that their teens are being forthcoming about their sexploits.

I can accept the goverment stepping in in place of justice for the individual which they have done with the court systems, but i can not accept their attempts at taking over parenting skills which is what this is

The government isn't making it mandatory for teens to have oral sex.
 
Squiggy said:
Sadly, we're way past that point...

Wanna bet? It's parents being lazy sum bitches & turning their authority over to a nanny or the school or some other 3 party. We went several thousand "civilized" years without teen pregnancies becoming a crisis. In the last 35 years kids gained way too much power. Mine hasn't.
 
Gonz said:
Squiggy said:
Sadly, we're way past that point...

Wanna bet? It's parents being lazy sum bitches & turning their authority over to a nanny or the school or some other 3 party. We went several thousand "civilized" years without teen pregnancies becoming a crisis. In the last 35 years kids gained way too much power. Mine hasn't.

I am not saying every child is beyond parental control. I'm speaking in collective terms. And the children haven't 'gained' the power...We've given it to them with our COLLECTIVE adult lifestyles...
 
HeXp£Øi± said:
The government isn't making it mandatory for teens to have oral sex.
No but they're still spending our money wasting time on a tasks which we haven't assigned them to do.

:confuse3: You would be proud of our governments ability to tell us how many pubic hairs Saddam lost in his morning shower, yet you condemn them for researching a social problem on the homefront?
 
Exceptionally few children are beyond parental control. But you're right, it's been given up by "adults" more concerned with the Joneses car collection & bigger house. Damn sad thing.

"We are the Borg...Resistence is futile." I'd prefer fighting tooth fang & claw to the death that becoming a sheep for the collective.
 
Yhere is nothing wrong with being part of th "collective" as long as you are happy with which "percentage group" you fall into. In fact, we are all part of the "collective. Its unavoidable.
 
i am one for the gov't so if they are urging us to get heasd then so be it i should go out and get some right now
except for the fact im at school.
 
if they teach that kind of thing I think it would be a lot better than having them experiment with it under govt.
 
freako104 said:
if they teach that kind of thing I think it would be a lot better than having them experiment with it under govt.

They couldn't in certain US states, as it is against the law :lol:
 
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