About a mile and a half as the crow flies. I've spoken to my niece Kayliegh(17) who moved back in a couple of weeks ago to help out running the place. Apparently Rachel (22) has handed over organising and paying all the bills to her!
For example, Rach got paid for 2 weeks last week and told me yesterday she has £5 left to last till next payday - I know she went out the other night and came home plastered. Plus she hasn't given Kay any money to put towards the bills!! Kay certainly doesn't have the money to pay all the bills herself.
When my sister was alive Rach gave her £25 a week for her board and that was it. She can't seem to understand that she is now responsible for her sister and that doesn't just include feeding her, she needs clothes, toiletries, etc. and she has to pay the bills. She needs to learn to budget.... FAST! I've tried to show her how but she just doesn't seem to get it and I can't keep baling her out, I haven't got it.
Rach also beat up Sophie and told her she wants her out which is not on. Kayliegh wants her sister to stay with her so we've contacted Social Services in the hope that they can help with some sort of support to enable that to happen - they're coming tomorrow at 11am. Of the four Kay is the one with the most sense and I think with the right sort of support they will be OK.
The trouble I find with young people is that it's no good telling them anything, you just have to let them get on with it, make their own mistakes and then help sort them out afterwards.
I knew right from the start that Rach didn't really want the responsibility of her sister, but I had to let them find out that it wasn't going to work for themselves. It was that or Sophie was determined to run off somewhere rather than stay with me. They're all so bloody stubborn and sure they are right but I think they've finally come to realise they do need help. Now we have to all sit down and find a solution that works.