IDLEchild
Well-Known Member
So I have been in a daring mood as of late. Doing things i'd never imagined, taking mild risks. I don't know why but I am.
Recently I was advised to join this site where a lot of members are from my school. I did and found it to be pretty nice so far but the first thing I noticed as soon as I joined was that everyone there had bared their identity in full. From clear digital mugh shots to full on contact information.
From detailed lists of their personalities to meticulious outlining of their preferences and whatever else, neccessary, traits and preferences one lists when hunting for social game. So was I to do the same? Well it is no doubt that these hipsters are looking for friendships or even physical gratification or else they wouldn't be so candid about their personalities...or are they? I mean everything they put down...is it really that incriminating against them? Can it be used in anyway against them? Logic states no (besides the contact info that is) so why am I so hesitent to still put any inkling of my existance down? These people realize: "who cares, it's just me describing myself, not giving away my social security number for free"
Don't get me wrong...after much tenacious effort in my head I finally put up a heavily doctored picture of me (its filtered up the ying yang but my face and its foundations are clear) yet when it came time to edit personal info I lied and jokingly filled out most of the fields....why? Not like my dreams and preferences can be used against me? So why do I remain so hesitent about letting any part of my identity out on the net or even real life (I have made doging personal questions into an art form now)
Take the members of OTC for an example. Some of you are very candid about your lives...everything from the mundane to the personal is bared here by some of you. From self portraits to sharing family pictures...that type of participation boggles me. How? I know the amazement and awe is all mine because I am aviodant but I can't seem to understand why I care so much about something no one really cares about: My mundane details of me.
take this thread for example.....for you, maybe, its nothing other than another personal dilemma or rant...for me it is vulrenability in exercise. I had to think 3 times before starting this thread? This paranoia isn't safe anymore, I thought it was.....it really isn't. Though this thread says I am trying....
...hehe...
maybe i'll give Photo gallery thread a shot.
Recently I was advised to join this site where a lot of members are from my school. I did and found it to be pretty nice so far but the first thing I noticed as soon as I joined was that everyone there had bared their identity in full. From clear digital mugh shots to full on contact information.
From detailed lists of their personalities to meticulious outlining of their preferences and whatever else, neccessary, traits and preferences one lists when hunting for social game. So was I to do the same? Well it is no doubt that these hipsters are looking for friendships or even physical gratification or else they wouldn't be so candid about their personalities...or are they? I mean everything they put down...is it really that incriminating against them? Can it be used in anyway against them? Logic states no (besides the contact info that is) so why am I so hesitent to still put any inkling of my existance down? These people realize: "who cares, it's just me describing myself, not giving away my social security number for free"
Don't get me wrong...after much tenacious effort in my head I finally put up a heavily doctored picture of me (its filtered up the ying yang but my face and its foundations are clear) yet when it came time to edit personal info I lied and jokingly filled out most of the fields....why? Not like my dreams and preferences can be used against me? So why do I remain so hesitent about letting any part of my identity out on the net or even real life (I have made doging personal questions into an art form now)
Take the members of OTC for an example. Some of you are very candid about your lives...everything from the mundane to the personal is bared here by some of you. From self portraits to sharing family pictures...that type of participation boggles me. How? I know the amazement and awe is all mine because I am aviodant but I can't seem to understand why I care so much about something no one really cares about: My mundane details of me.
take this thread for example.....for you, maybe, its nothing other than another personal dilemma or rant...for me it is vulrenability in exercise. I had to think 3 times before starting this thread? This paranoia isn't safe anymore, I thought it was.....it really isn't. Though this thread says I am trying....
...hehe...
maybe i'll give Photo gallery thread a shot.