Looking at another man/woman

Spirit

Spirit

Kissy Goddess
My sister and I were having a conversation this morning that led to this. How do you feel if/when your significant other looks at another man/woman? Does it bother you more if they look at naked pics?

I don't like it when we are out and he looks at women for any extended length of time - ONLY because it's like saying "I'd rather look at her than you" and it makes me feel embarassed if others see him looking at other women.

However, he can look at porn all he wants - he could stare at a picture of a naked woman and it wouldn't bother me.

Whereas she gets irritated because her hubby buys this Grade 4 reading level paper that features a different bikini clad babe every day. :confused: I don't qutie understand buying a paper just to look at a picture, I'd just look at the picture and leave it in the store :lloyd:
 
Spirit said:
Whereas she gets irritated because her hubby buys this Grade 4 reading level paper that features a different bikini clad babe every day. :confused: I don't qutie understand buying a paper just to look at a picture, I'd just look at the picture and leave it in the store :lloyd:
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You can't "crack one off" in the store... well... you could but I think the police would interupt you before climax!

Me.. I'm not bothered either way... sure I get a little pang of jealousy if the babe in question being perused is the polar opposite of me (tall, slim, leggy, blond, big titted and stupid!) But I'm just as likely to point out the girl with the breasts about to tumble out of her top to my bloke before it even registers on his radar!!!!

Porn... definitely don't care... as long as he invests in some to share!!! :p
 
Looking at pictures, and then banging hell outta the missus, fine.
Looking at pictures, and jerking off .... dead meat.
 
It doesn't bother me terribly. The spouse and I have even discussed the whole "that celebrity is hot" topic. No jealousy involved.

If it were someone she found attractive at a restaurant or whatnot, so long as she clues me in, something like "That guy is very handsome." and that's it, I'm OK with it.

Should it go any further, however...hell to pay. Infidelity does NOT sit well.
 
as long as the looking isn't done with no clothes & touching being involved :shrug:
 
HomeLAN said:
Either way, I don't care where you get your appetite, so long as you eat at home.
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Well put. I heard Gary Shandling once say, "Just because I like the way a dinner looks on another guy's plate hardly means I'm going to go over and ask for a bite."
 
I'm more often than not the one to point out the girl in the street with big tits, and I periodically ask questions like, 'do ya think she's pretty?' Then we'll have a discussion on the merits of the said girl pointed out. :lloyd: As far as porn goes, can't say I care that much. :shrug:
 
My husband can look all he wants. I know where he spends his nights. :)

I love to "window shop". Especially race car drivers. They have some of the finest "rear spoilers" around. hehehe
 
*agrees with steve.
just as long as my significant others "eating at home" involves a second person...namely myself.
 
she can look at whoever she wishes. doesnt bother me in the least.
as far as her looking at naked pictures, i hope i have a camera nearby as nobody would believe me when i told them.
 
I don't care if he looks at another person, as long as it isn't obscene. It's human nature to look at other people.

As for naked pics, he can look at all the porn he wants. As long as it isn't some form of an internet relationship, he can look at naked pics. In fact, he usually shows them to me, or I show them to him.
 
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