Past love interests and their new love interests

[Nixy]

What is they best thing for them to do?

 

[HeXp£Øi±]

You mean the best thing for them to do for themselves or the best thing for them to do for you?

 

[Nixy]

What would you want them to do?

Would you want to know or not?

 

[HomeLAN]

I've never really given a crap.

 

[freako104]

would depend upon the break up and such. and also what would the relationship be after the break up.

 

[Aunty Em]

Personally I don't give a damn what he does, but no doubt he'll want to boast about it so I'm bound to get a blow by blow commentary.

 

[PT]

With my high school girlfriend, it hurt alot when she called me up and told me about her new love. Now, my Ex-wife, I could have really cared less.

 

[fury]

I wouldn't really expect them to tell me about their new love interests. It wouldn't be any of my business. That is, unless she's getting interested while we're still together. Then I'd rather she tell me up front so I can go congratulate the guy on getting himself hooked up and wish him good luck with a total and complete bitch.

 

[fury]

But knowing the nice guy I am, I'd probably leave out the total and complete bitch part.

 

[unclehobart]

depends upon the natre of the separation. if it was a clean bloodless break, nothing says that you cant still be chatty and amicable. If it was gruesome... screw em. Out of sight out of mind.

 

[halamikage]

Yeah, it would basically depend on the break up. Not that it would be any of my business that he was hooking up again with whomever.

However, at this point in time, I'd be hellah mad if my ex suddenly had a girlfriend, only 'cause that would mean that it took him four months after our breakup to realize that NOW he's ready for a relationship.

 

[ris]

my ex's have had the good courtesy to tell me if they are seeing new people when i've spoken to them and asked. i'd do the same, but with a banner and advertising campaign about how much better my new beau is

 

[AlladinSane]

If I loved the person I wouldn't like to know. If I don't I would like to know and greet her/wish her luck.

 

[Inkara1]

I'd like to know... but I don't want to get called up in the middle of the night with: "Hey, Aaron! Guess what! I just got laid again! I think this guy's the one!" I'd rather know when I'm more ready to find out, know what I mean?