Show me a heterosexual man who looks at a ripe, fully developed 14 year old girl, who doesn't think or will not admit to thinking about it (mind you not do it and wouldn't actually do it), and I'll show you a liar, and most likely the kind of man who will go there!
We live in such a stupid ass backwards repressed society. Regardless though, a sexually mature but under age girl is going to be attractive to older men, period and point blank! The difference with those of us who can admit it, is that most of us also know the consequences, legal included yet least among them, but mostly the fact that this girl is not old enough to make adult decisions in such areas. Most of us would never "go there".
It's those guys who tell others, or worse yet tell themselves, that there is no attraction and they are not in the least bit interested, if only in fantasy, that are a danger. Those are generally the men who will act on such impulses.
Even so, a man who sleeps with an underage, but sexually mature and willing female, has done wrong, but it in no way rises to the same kind of level as rape or pedophilia. These men are often weak and have poor impulse control. The men who go after young children and rape women are predators. Quite a difference!