BlurOfSerenity
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1. on saturday night (may 7), my friend Yves from high school took a curve near my house at wayy too high a speed and crashed his car into a tree. his 4 passengers, most of whom i was pretty close with in high school are in the hospital, and one's been released, but Yves did not make it to the next morning. it came as a total "WTF" shocker. i had seen him just a day or two before that. and then he was gone. i started a webpage in his memory. http://yves.batwing.org .
RIP Yves
2. yesterday (may 11), my friend Kelly, also from high school, decided life wasn't worth it, and ended it with a .44 . this also came as a WTF shocker... i'm still waiting for her friend i found out from to go "just kidding, here she is". she had her depressed and hopeless times, but i dont think any of us thought too much of it... she was a teenager, and she also had her happy times. it was commented after this news, that she hid her despair very well. i never realized fully how stupid suicide was until now. she was a couple of weeks from graduating. she had friends she could have turned to for help. she was smart and pretty and cool and could have made something of herself. she could have been happy. life may suck now but it's worth sticking around to see if it gets better because with time, it often does. i just got the news like two hours ago, and it's just now really hitting me. i don't understand. she was such a sweet girl. she moved to west virginia a year or two ago and i was just thinking about finally going to see her there.
do you find its hard not to blame yourself for when someone dies like that?
i should have been more accessable. i should have been more open in reminding her i was there for her. i should have thought to visit her sooner. now when i visit her she'll be in a box, dead and unable to live out all the years that i'm sure would have been good ones, if only she'd stuck around for them.
RIP Kelly
two in one week. both people i considered friends. both people i went to high school with. both dead. neither death necessary. both frustrating and upsetting. both young.
i'm trying to find the lesson and reason in this, but it's still fucking hard.
i try to ignore it and think of other things, but it's still hard.
RIP Yves
2. yesterday (may 11), my friend Kelly, also from high school, decided life wasn't worth it, and ended it with a .44 . this also came as a WTF shocker... i'm still waiting for her friend i found out from to go "just kidding, here she is". she had her depressed and hopeless times, but i dont think any of us thought too much of it... she was a teenager, and she also had her happy times. it was commented after this news, that she hid her despair very well. i never realized fully how stupid suicide was until now. she was a couple of weeks from graduating. she had friends she could have turned to for help. she was smart and pretty and cool and could have made something of herself. she could have been happy. life may suck now but it's worth sticking around to see if it gets better because with time, it often does. i just got the news like two hours ago, and it's just now really hitting me. i don't understand. she was such a sweet girl. she moved to west virginia a year or two ago and i was just thinking about finally going to see her there.
do you find its hard not to blame yourself for when someone dies like that?
i should have been more accessable. i should have been more open in reminding her i was there for her. i should have thought to visit her sooner. now when i visit her she'll be in a box, dead and unable to live out all the years that i'm sure would have been good ones, if only she'd stuck around for them.
RIP Kelly
two in one week. both people i considered friends. both people i went to high school with. both dead. neither death necessary. both frustrating and upsetting. both young.
i'm trying to find the lesson and reason in this, but it's still fucking hard.
i try to ignore it and think of other things, but it's still hard.