PrincessLissa
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After the horrible Christmas fiasco, my soon to be sister-in-law has done it again. Not only is Miranda acting cold to me and purposly not including me in family events, she is acting jealous because her mom had a picture of Alexandria on her shelf next to the 40 or so of Miranda's son Nick. Now here is the kicker. A few moths ago, after pubically announcing to everyone that would listen that I was apart of her family now and she was going to be an auntie (after telling everyone how jealous she was that I was having a baby), she announced to me and several other people that she would be throwing my baby shower. Well, I never heard anything more and just figured that she was waiting till the end of this quarter in school to start all the planning. Erik was talking to her last night a bit about baby showers ansd she said "Well I had to throw myself one, so you guys could do that". I could not believe that she would say that. I am not sure what her mental damage is this time, but I have had enough of it. I tempted to write her an e-mail that says:
I AM apart of your brother's life so deal with it. I AM apart of your family and your mother happens to have a daughter in law now that she is fond of, get over it. Your mother also happens to love my daughter and there is nothing you can do about it. There is NO possible way to filter me out of your life so please stop trying.
But then she will cry and go off the handle and relay even more stupid messages to me through her mom. This girl hates confrontation. Last time I confronted her about why she was upset with me, it took her 3 days to come up with an answer that took me about 30 seconds to tear down and again ask her what was really wrong. SHe immediatly appologized and said that she didn't know what was wrong. UGH!
I am tired of over looking and pretending not to see all the stupid shit she pulls on everyone. I am tired of other people letting her. This is the end of the rope. I will treat her how she is treating me and when she gets all but thurt and starts crying about how horrible i am to just start treating her this way without an explanation, it will ALL blow up in her face and she will get hit hard with all the stupid shit she thinks she is getting away with. Small doses of reality do not work with this bitch. SHe needs it all at once and this is the only way I can think of to do it.
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I AM apart of your brother's life so deal with it. I AM apart of your family and your mother happens to have a daughter in law now that she is fond of, get over it. Your mother also happens to love my daughter and there is nothing you can do about it. There is NO possible way to filter me out of your life so please stop trying.
But then she will cry and go off the handle and relay even more stupid messages to me through her mom. This girl hates confrontation. Last time I confronted her about why she was upset with me, it took her 3 days to come up with an answer that took me about 30 seconds to tear down and again ask her what was really wrong. SHe immediatly appologized and said that she didn't know what was wrong. UGH!
I am tired of over looking and pretending not to see all the stupid shit she pulls on everyone. I am tired of other people letting her. This is the end of the rope. I will treat her how she is treating me and when she gets all but thurt and starts crying about how horrible i am to just start treating her this way without an explanation, it will ALL blow up in her face and she will get hit hard with all the stupid shit she thinks she is getting away with. Small doses of reality do not work with this bitch. SHe needs it all at once and this is the only way I can think of to do it.
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