MrBishop
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1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling them how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?:
- Looking into their eyes when I tell them how I feel...sometimes because of the shame of the topic or because I feel shame for them.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry?
- Almost getting t-boned by another car who had burned a red-light. I had my kids in the van at the time.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call?
- MrsBish...she can pass on the rest of the message and retain the emotions
4. You are at the doctor's office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?:
- I tell my friends and family, take a month off my job and spend every passing minute playing with my kids, visiting family and loving my wife. Everyone dies eventually..I'd be afraid of not getting everything done.
5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love or Trust:
- Trust. Without trust, there is no love
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?:
- Sure...but i'd do it really fast. I need my job to pay for my family. Paying for Karma sucks, don't it
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
- I would tell her....but I don't cheat.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?:
- If I was alone...I'd review my own feelings for her and if there was a possible, I'd try it out. If I didn't see them in that way, I'd let them down as softly as I could.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
- Sure...give them that hour to say goodbye to their family. Losing a year off of the end of my life wouldn't hurt all that much.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
- Sure. I'm always looking for twins of myself.
11. Does love = sex.
- Nope. Platonic love exists.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?:
- A few years ago. I explained how what she'd just said was biggoted and cruel.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a boy/girl friend: you love them? or that you do not love them back?
- That I don't love them back. If I feel love...people know it.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
- Give up? My kids...for obvious reasons.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
- This morning to my son as I dropped him off at school
18. Imagine. it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
- Nobody. I'd rather deal with it myself rather than risk anyone else's life
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
- Sure...a person is a person
20. Are you old fashion?
- partially. I live in the modern world but have old-fashioned ideals about love, romance, honesty etc..
21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
- Depends on what you mean by 'nice'. I open doors for people all the time. I also volunteer for a network that helps return missing children to their families.
22. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
- The broken heart. Better to have loved and lost...
23. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
- I'd like to clean up the environment by snapping my fingers.
- Looking into their eyes when I tell them how I feel...sometimes because of the shame of the topic or because I feel shame for them.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry?
- Almost getting t-boned by another car who had burned a red-light. I had my kids in the van at the time.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call?
- MrsBish...she can pass on the rest of the message and retain the emotions
4. You are at the doctor's office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?:
- I tell my friends and family, take a month off my job and spend every passing minute playing with my kids, visiting family and loving my wife. Everyone dies eventually..I'd be afraid of not getting everything done.
5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love or Trust:
- Trust. Without trust, there is no love
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?:
- Sure...but i'd do it really fast. I need my job to pay for my family. Paying for Karma sucks, don't it
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
- I would tell her....but I don't cheat.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?:
- If I was alone...I'd review my own feelings for her and if there was a possible, I'd try it out. If I didn't see them in that way, I'd let them down as softly as I could.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
- Sure...give them that hour to say goodbye to their family. Losing a year off of the end of my life wouldn't hurt all that much.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
- Sure. I'm always looking for twins of myself.
11. Does love = sex.
- Nope. Platonic love exists.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?:
- A few years ago. I explained how what she'd just said was biggoted and cruel.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a boy/girl friend: you love them? or that you do not love them back?
- That I don't love them back. If I feel love...people know it.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
- Give up? My kids...for obvious reasons.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
- This morning to my son as I dropped him off at school
18. Imagine. it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
- Nobody. I'd rather deal with it myself rather than risk anyone else's life
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
- Sure...a person is a person
20. Are you old fashion?
- partially. I live in the modern world but have old-fashioned ideals about love, romance, honesty etc..
21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
- Depends on what you mean by 'nice'. I open doors for people all the time. I also volunteer for a network that helps return missing children to their families.
22. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
- The broken heart. Better to have loved and lost...
23. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
- I'd like to clean up the environment by snapping my fingers.