About cheaters...

[Professur]

Sure beats speculatin'

 

[AlladinSane]

If you know someone's is using you to cheat on someone else, not only are you a cheater too, you're a moron. Just my humble opinion.

You mean specifically using with the only purpose of cheating? Because most of the time, there are other reasons but the cheating itself...

 

[freako104]

Lacey, I think if you were to ask around, you'd find that noone plans to fool around. They'll say "it just happened" or " the next thing I knew".

Spontenaity is no excuse for moral facility.

very true prof

Cheating is most definitely not spontaneous. You aren't walking down the street and a sexual organ just suddenly appears on/in you. There is no excuse for it, no matter how it happens. There is a purpose behind it every time...whether it's to hurt your current love interest, or to gratify your own inflated ego, it doesn't 'just' happen.
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i agree but sometimes too the cheater didnt realise what he/she was doing(drugs/alchol, bad influences etc) but for the most part i agree

 

[Gato_Solo]

Lacey, I think if you were to ask around, you'd find that noone plans to fool around. They'll say "it just happened" or " the next thing I knew".

Spontenaity is no excuse for moral facility.

very true prof

Cheating is most definitely not spontaneous. You aren't walking down the street and a sexual organ just suddenly appears on/in you. There is no excuse for it, no matter how it happens. There is a purpose behind it every time...whether it's to hurt your current love interest, or to gratify your own inflated ego, it doesn't 'just' happen.
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i agree but sometimes too the cheater didnt realise what he/she was doing(drugs/alchol, bad influences etc) but for the most part i agree

Alcohol and drugs are not an excuse, either. The thought has to be there to begin with.

 

[freako104]

The thought has to be there to begin with.

sometimes it gets there while theyre drunk/high too.

 

[AlladinSane]

But one gets drunk willingly, so he is responsible for all of his acts...

 

[PT]

Have to agree, I've always thought the "But Honey, I was Drunk" was a pretty lame ass excuse. Even when I was using pretty heavy, I still knew what I was doing in that area.

 

[Nixy]

I think the desire has to be there

The alcohol and drugs may decrease inhibitions or something but the desire has to be there

 

[Gato_Solo]

I think the desire has to be there

The alcohol and drugs may decrease inhibitions or something but the desire has to be there

 

[freako104]

But one gets drunk willingly, so he is responsible for all of his acts...

oh i didnt say id hold him/her resposible for it just that some people will do it and regret it some keep doing it but most people i know wont ever do it.