are you turned on by lesbian porn?

lesbian porn. turn on or turn off?

  • turn on

    Votes: 35 85.4%
  • turn off

    Votes: 3 7.3%
  • depends who i am with

    Votes: 3 7.3%

  • Total voters
    41

Oz

New Member
AnomalousEntity said:
No one is monogomous, serial promiscuity at best. So is that supposed to make me feel better?...that my lover isnt sleeping with someone else TODAY? *shrug* No, I wouldnt be happy knowing my wife had been with 20 other guys before me that almost makes the monogomous meaningless...this should go double if your the jealous type. If they would sleep with 20 different people it wouldnt take much for them to cheat on you (trust me on this).

Sorry but this is absolute crap. Are you trying to say that everyone who has led a promiscuous life is likely to cheat on their partner? Personally I couldn't care less if a person had shagged half of England in the past, it doens't have any effect on the current relationship. I've never lived the life of a monk......but I've always had the balls to call it a day when a relationship has run it's course. Only a coward cheats behind someone's back.

I don't believe promiscuity is a habit that can't/won't be broke....sure some people live their whole lives like that.....but just because some people have a lot of partners before they meet the right one, certainly doesn't mean that they are gonna be cheaters their whole lives.

A lot of people live chaste lives for various reasons (religious, moral, health etc) but a lot of people also spent their time, in my case my late teens early twenties, experimenting and learning about sex with a few different partners.........and those experiences certainly havn't made me any more likely to cheat on my partner, in fact having "been there, done that" has problably given me more than enough experience to fully appreciate the relationship I'm in (how many stories have you heard about men and women running off with the neighbour after many "happy" years of marraige?).
 

Xcite

New Member
i retract that answer I'm only turned on by my girlfriend now... at least thats what i keep saying to myself

Ever since meeting my last boyfriend for the first time in my life my arousment was fixed on one thing, and that was him. Gone were the fanatasies of gorgeous men from the tele/hollywood and it was my boyfriend who dominated my fantasies. Annoying thing is, he stil does, even tho we're no longer together :eh: Apparently it was the same with him, or thats what he kept telling me :shrug: As much as it can be good, what the hell do you do when its all over? :confused:
 

AnomalousEntity

New Member
bleach said:
Sorry but this is absolute crap. Are you trying to say that everyone who has led a promiscuous life is likely to cheat on their partner? Personally I couldn't care less if a person had shagged half of England in the past, it doens't have any effect on the current relationship. I've never lived the life of a monk......but I've always had the balls to call it a day when a relationship has run it's course. Only a coward cheats behind someone's back.

I don't believe promiscuity is a habit that can't/won't be broke....sure some people live their whole lives like that.....but just because some people have a lot of partners before they meet the right one, certainly doesn't mean that they are gonna be cheaters their whole lives.

A lot of people live chaste lives for various reasons (religious, moral, health etc) but a lot of people also spent their time, in my case my late teens early twenties, experimenting and learning about sex with a few different partners.........and those experiences certainly havn't made me any more likely to cheat on my partner, in fact having "been there, done that" has problably given me more than enough experience to fully appreciate the relationship I'm in (how many stories have you heard about men and women running off with the neighbour after many "happy" years of marraige?).

Well alright let me re-state. This is not true for everyone, but the scenario does hold true for a great deal of folks.
 

freako104

Well-Known Member
AnomalousEntity said:
Yea well if you do it right, you can do it in any order. Go right to the sex, then foreplay, then sex again,

Or foreplay, sex, foreplay, sex foreplay sex.

Ok so its not technically "foreplay" once the sex has started, but that doesnt mean you cant do the other touching and rubbing intermittently throughout the sex.

Just ask sexy boo. I work at it so hard I get tired and have to take "breaks" and this is a good time for more foreplay or whatever strikes your fancy.

Its not like their are rules.

As far as multiple partners, why 2 women and 1 man, but never two men and one woman?

I mean come on guys whats the problem here?

At least with 2 men and one women, there is somthing for everyone to do (not necessarily the case but can be with 2 women and one man).

Also if you go for 3 men and a women then thats the only way there is somthing for everyone to do (withouth the men bein gay).

Now if you do 3 women and 1 man what do you have? A bunch or bored women (again unless they are lesbian).

As far as monogomous and jealousy....*shrug*

Whats monogomous, how many people actually start out virgins and stay that way till they are married.

No one is monogomous, serial promiscuity at best. So is that supposed to make me feel better?...that my lover isnt sleeping with someone else TODAY? *shrug* No, I wouldnt be happy knowing my wife had been with 20 other guys before me that almost makes the monogomous meaningless...this should go double if your the jealous type. If they would sleep with 20 different people it wouldnt take much for them to cheat on you (trust me on this).

So at least with a threesome or foursome you can be there too to enjoy the fun. There is more trust in that than wondering what the hell else they might be doing to fill those wild tendancies when your not with them. And being jealous of the two of them at the same time while they are with you is just absurd.

As far as it being about "her". Come on guys....hearing the girl scream loudly and seeing her go off the deep end with pleasure is like 80% of the fun. It should be for you to. If its about me I can handle that with a magazine or a cold partner (which trust me is no where near as fun..I know about this too). If she isnt wild and having fun, your not either....



that isnt necessarily true. some people are some arent. and I believe theres a difference between promisucity or polyamoury and cheating. cheating is where it doesnt matter whether or not someone gets hurt. polyamoury you do care about said partner and whatever other partners you have but arent satisfied in one relationship. this is why i say talk things out with s/o and also get to know them and see if you could get along. KA dont think that way about CJ Im sure he loves you and wouldnt hurt you like that
 

Roxy

New Member
MeEp!
My answer would have to be uh, hell yeah. Heh.
I'm bi, so definitely into that, and turned on by chicks.
I've tried to go the 3some route with ex-bf's, but they hate my rule.
Rule: If you want to have a 3sum with me and another chick, sure, fine, all for it, but you just have to be willing to give me the same in return with me and a guy.

Unfeckingfortunately, they all run when they hear the rule. Wusses!
[waves fist]
 

Roxy

New Member
Ooooh ok. Well, hope that happens soon! So then the both of you can get humping like bunnies on crack! Meh.
 

A.B.Normal

New Member
Roxy said:
Ooooh ok. Well, hope that happens soon! So then the both of you can get humping like bunnies on crack! Meh.


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