75renegade
New Member
How do ya think its possible to 'ave hope for the ones we love, to say, change for the "better", without placin' unrealistic expectations upon them, to some'ow "ascend" to a mindset, which WE feel, is better for them, an' others.
I think we are often let down, an' unduly disappointed, by folks that we care about, who continually fail to meet our expectations, (for them).
I believe, it is futillity, to somehow, place ourselves in the positions of, "knowers" of what's best for those we love, yet all too often, we do put ourselves in these positions.
Perhaps, nobly thinkin' we do them a "service".
Or perhaps, jus' servin' ourselves, to some'ow think that we 'ave the answer for them, since we're so "far" removed from their places of, "so called" dishonor.
Self included, why do we get disappointed, when the only choice we possess, is the one which is uniquely our own, an' we would 'ave no one else try to "show us the way" the've found, yet we, continue to hold expectations upon others which are not of their makin'??(
I think we are often let down, an' unduly disappointed, by folks that we care about, who continually fail to meet our expectations, (for them).
I believe, it is futillity, to somehow, place ourselves in the positions of, "knowers" of what's best for those we love, yet all too often, we do put ourselves in these positions.
Perhaps, nobly thinkin' we do them a "service".
Or perhaps, jus' servin' ourselves, to some'ow think that we 'ave the answer for them, since we're so "far" removed from their places of, "so called" dishonor.
Self included, why do we get disappointed, when the only choice we possess, is the one which is uniquely our own, an' we would 'ave no one else try to "show us the way" the've found, yet we, continue to hold expectations upon others which are not of their makin'??(