have you ever cheated in a relationship??

[Luis G]

Once again, the other thread made me think about it.

Silly relationships: the ones you have when you're almost playing to be bf/gf....
Formal: if you are serious about the relationship, you have strong feelings for your partner, when you're married, or you're living with him/her.

Rules, if you have cheated on formal and silly relationships, select yes on formal relationships

Word of th day.
PS = P.D. (posdata or postdata, both are correct) [/size]

 

[ris]

nope, never

i don't think i could handle the guilt

 

[Luis G]

You forgot to vote

 

[ris]

duh! silly me

 

[Guest]

beer good

sloppy seconds bad

 

[Professur]

Never. Never have, never will. My word is my bond.

The only thing I ever cheat on is cards. And that's only done if there's no money involved.

 

[kuulani]

Once, when I was in a silly relationship with a guy, I kisssed another guy. That's how far I cheated. I don't know if that even counts, seeing as I wasn't really in a real relationship with the first guy anyway.

I'm in a real relationship now. I can't even fathom cheating on my luv.

 

[Gonz]

That's why they made "breaking up" for high schoolers. Say you're breaking up & then go be naughty.

In real life, Never.

 

[Professur]

Did you think it wasn't a 'real relationship' before you went kissing someone else?

 

[kuulani]

I knew it wasn't a real relationship. It was convenient. That kind of relationships never last long.

I shouldn't have kissed the other guy though. We had been drinking. He kissed me, I stopped it It was a nice kiss though.

 

[Justintime]

never

 

[Professur]

Originally posted by kuulani
I knew it wasn't a real relationship. It was convenient. That kind of relationships never last long.

I shouldn't have kissed the other guy though. We had been drinking. He kissed me, I stopped it It was a nice kiss though.

Ah. So you weren't the instigator. And you stopped it.

But did HE know it wasn't a real relationship?

 

[kuulani]

It was kinda unspoken, but we both knew we weren't "the one" for each other. At the end, he asked if he could start seeing someone else, and I let him go. It wasn't that hard.

 

[Luis G]

Originally posted by Justintime
never

Are you sure ?

 

[ris]

damn my friend is going to be upset

 

[Luis G]

Jeez........i'm the only one that has cheated, along with kuu, but as she said it wasn't like "cheating cheating"

 

[greenfreak]

Hoping for a different outcome Luis?

I've never cheated but have been cheated on at least once that I know of. I always asked guys that I liked if they've ever cheated on anyone. If they said yes, no matter what the circumstance, I would not go out with them. If they said no, and I found out later that they lied, I would break up with them and cut all ties. My three cardinal rules of dating (no particular order):

1. no cheating
2. no drugs
3. no lying

Any of those things happening resulted in me 'cutting all ties' and thus never speaking to them again.

 

[Luis G]

Dinner next friday?

 

[greenfreak]

Sorry hon but I have a date-with my boyfriend.

 

[Berserker]

Me, never been hurt so much in my life but I was played by a girl. I would like to return her the favour if I've got a chance. I vever had a good relationship with any girls that like to play hard to get.