AlphaTroll
New Member
So, I have this little situation with an ex. We broke up a while ago after being together for about a year or so. Recently I met someone else and I think this could be the beginning of something great.
Unfortunately the ex & I move in the same social circles. At first it was OK, after all we are both adults and I thought we could at least maintain a decorum of civility. Seems this is not the case after all. I now hear from a friend that the ex has been badmouthing me to all and sundry and for some reason blames my new man for the break-up (despite that fact that we only met a while after the previous relationship went to shit). It's become rather irritating being in the same company as the ex - he never lets an opportunity go by to have a little dig at me (and lately my new man) whenever we're with friends.
I think he's bloody childish and want to tell him off, but I am unsure how to go about it because I don't want to cause problems with the group of friends. It's also causing a little tension in my new relationship, mostly because we are both fed up with the ex and his moronic comments.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with exes who constantly feel the need to interfere in new relationships?
Unfortunately the ex & I move in the same social circles. At first it was OK, after all we are both adults and I thought we could at least maintain a decorum of civility. Seems this is not the case after all. I now hear from a friend that the ex has been badmouthing me to all and sundry and for some reason blames my new man for the break-up (despite that fact that we only met a while after the previous relationship went to shit). It's become rather irritating being in the same company as the ex - he never lets an opportunity go by to have a little dig at me (and lately my new man) whenever we're with friends.
I think he's bloody childish and want to tell him off, but I am unsure how to go about it because I don't want to cause problems with the group of friends. It's also causing a little tension in my new relationship, mostly because we are both fed up with the ex and his moronic comments.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with exes who constantly feel the need to interfere in new relationships?