How can you be so confident about what my "own personality" really is? You may have had the opportunity to get to know part of it at one time - but people change all the time - and I personally have changed so much in the past 12 months I would hardly recognise myself and the things I believe in and how I am now- thats what growth, experience and an education tends to do to you.
God knows what I'll be like in five years time...
Nothing and no-one is constant y'know. Especially where it comes to identity...
how can you, of all the people I have known - be so sure that you know you knew "the real" me in the first place?