What's your number?

Gonz

molṑn labé
Staff member
Yes, 11...a late 11...a cute little 13 year old neighbor. Just wait until (if) I tell how much of a slut I once was.
 

catocom

Well-Known Member
greenfreak said:
  1. How old were you when you gave up your virginity?
  2. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had since then?
  3. How many years has it been since you gave up your virginity?
  4. How many of those people were sexual partners?
  5. Does your current partner know all of this information?

1. Don't remember (in my teens)
2. Don't remember
3. don't know...(over 20)
4. All but one
5. No current
 

tank girl

New Member
Winky said:
Tank the word is 'dictatorial'.

At least on this continent it is...

But dictatorly is just so innovative, don'tcha think.?;)

Come to think of it...since when have I claimed to care about sticking to the rules of grammar?

If we didn't go around being so progressive - we'd all still be communicating through grunts and moans.

Or perhaps that only applies in kiwiland :shrug: The grunts are exclusive copyright of the whitehouse.

:lol:

but then again...
GW has completely transformed what some people used to understand to be "freedom" and "Democracy" now, hasn't he?
 

a13antichrist

New Member
IDLEchild said:
a13 got it right. It is the person's level of intelligence and maturity, not their sexual history that should be taken into account.


Yeah actually I was talking about the people doing the labelling, not the person having the sex.
 

greenfreak

New Member
a13antichrist said:
It's not the number that determines that - it's how retarded the people doing the "constituting" are. If they feel the need to define that at all then they're retards.

Why do you think you need an excuse?
The whole conversation started because we were making fun of this guy. His 5 year old daughter said she wanted to be a ballerina and he didn't want her to take dance lessons but he didn't want to tell us why. We finally got it out of him -- that all the dancers he knew when he was in school were "loose". When we finished laughing from the absurdity of it, we grilled him about it. Pretty soon, we were referring to her Saturday morning dance classes as "slut school" and asked him if it was held on a street corner. :D

They thought that my number of sexual partners was unusual. I grilled them on it too... What's so unusual? The amount or the time frame? The age that I was having sex with these men? Just the number of them? I was asking more to get them to think about why they thought I had "too many" sexual partners, not to get a number out of them.

I don't need an excuse, I know how I feel about what I did. I said that because I expected the people here who think no one should have sex before they're married would start in with me. Honestly, looking back, the number surprises me a little bit. But I don't feel so bad when I look at Tonks' numbers. ;)
 

K62

New Member
1. How old were you when you gave up your virginity? 17
2. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had since then? 1
3. How many years has it been since you gave up your virginity? 2
4. How many of those people were sexual partners? 1
5. Does your current partner know all of this information? yes



"get there before the hair" eh, Gonz?

Sick man! sick!
 

Winky

Well-Known Member
For the sluts
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Girls behaving badly
Linda Chavez

February 16, 2005
If you watch a lot of cable television, you've probably seen the ads, especially late at night or early in the morning. The "Girls Gone Wild" videos promise to show you coeds behaving badly on the beach during Spring Break or getting down and dirty at Mardi Gras. The formula is simple: find a group of nubile young things drunk out of their heads and induce them to pull up their T-shirts or pull down their shorts and expose themselves to anyone willing to fork over $19.95 for the privilege. The most recent incarnation features gangster rapper Snoop Dogg hawking fresh, young flesh.

Call me old-fashioned, but I just can't imagine what these girls were thinking when they agreed to "show off their assets," as one knock-off video boasts. These young women aren't pros -- they are not part of the pornographic underworld -- but ordinary teens and twenty-somethings who one day will be wives and mothers. One young girl, who was 17 at the time she allowed herself to be photographed topless, has already sued the producers of "The Guy Game," a video game featuring females in various stages of undress. Her suit claims she did not give a "valid or enforceable consent or release" for photos to be used by the video game makers. "Plaintiff is still a teenager and wishes to attend college, develop her career and be active in her community and church." Good luck.

What is most shocking about this phenomenon is that we're not all that shocked by it. Modesty used to be considered a natural female attribute. No more. Just take a look around next time you're at the mall. With warm weather on the way, belly buttons will be popping out everywhere, and thighs will be very much on display, even in church. Back in the day, a pair of tight jeans was enough to earn a girl a bad reputation. Now slutty has gone Main Street.

A recent report by the Independent Women's Forum (IWF) -- "Sex (Ms.) Education: What Young Women Need to Know (But Won't Hear in Women's Studies) About Sex, Love, and Marriage" -- suggests that feminism is at least partly to blame. Female sexual license has become a central tenet in modern feminism, as the IWF documents in its study of feminist academic literature. Popular feminist textbooks, notes the study's author Carrie Lukas, "celebrate feminism's role in changing social mores by increasing the recognition of women's sexuality, bolstering its acceptance, and encouraging greater access to birth control." Early feminists burned their bras as a symbol of their liberation. Could baring their breasts be the newest symbolic act of young feminists?

As Lukas demonstrates, however, libertine behavior exacts a heavier toll on females than males. Women are more susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases than men, for example. A woman is eight times more likely than a man to contract HIV from a single sexual encounter and four times more likely to get gonorrhea when exposed. Women are also more likely to suffer serious damage, such as sterility or cervical cancer, from STDs. And the risks are not just physical.

Many studies show that promiscuous behavior entails greater psychological costs for even the most "liberated" women. One anthropologist cited by Lukas hypothesizes that the uncomfortable feelings many women experience after casual sexual encounters may be a warning system for women not to engage in behavior that would have been "maladaptive in earlier evolutionary eras. Casual sex with men unwilling to invest in them or their offspring is a prime instigator of such negative feelings."

The girls baring all in these low-budget videos may think that guys like this kind of behavior. But as Steven E. Rhoads, author of "Taking Sex Differences Seriously" notes, "Men often prize promiscuous sex in the short term, but they want faithful wives. . . . If a man finds a woman hard to get, he will sense that she is more likely to be faithful after marriage." Plenty of men and boys will buy the "Girls Gone Wild" videos, but they're not likely to invite the amateur strippers home to meet Mom.

Linda Chavez is President of the Center for Equal Opportunity, a Townhall.com member organization.
 

Lopan

New Member
1. How old were you when you gave up your virginity? 15
2. How many boyfriends/girlfriends/ have you had since then? 3 girlfriends & 9 one night stands. All safe I'm not a hillbilly who discovered contraception yesterday.
3. How many years has it been since you got rid of your virginity? 10
4. How many of those people were sexual partners? 12
5. Does your current partner know all of this information? Don't have one and it wouldn't be a big deal.
 

ClaireBear

Banned
greenfreak said:
  1. How old were you when you gave up your virginity?
  2. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had since then?
  3. How many years has it been since you gave up your virginity?
  4. How many of those people were sexual partners?
  5. Does your current partner know all of this information?

I think there is a flaw in the stat questions...

2 and 4 should be reversed...

2. How many sexual partners have you had since then?
4. How many of those partners were boyfriends/girlfriends?

Now that would be revealling!

But as they stand...

1. 19
2. 5
3. 6 (my God... that old!)
4. 5
5. Don't have one at the mo but all have known!

My way...

1. 18
2. emmm... oooh... er... :D 15
3. 5
4. 5
5. As above answer for #4!
 

Winky

Well-Known Member
I believe the point of this exercise
is to determine if you are a slut.

Funny how only sluts don't know if they are sluts?

cuz the other people know a slut when they see one?

Possibly the only thing worse than a slut that claims
not to be one is A proud slut?
 
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