Thulsa Doom said:
ok so heres the logic circuit then:
· heterosexual CAN marry heterosexual. sanctioned by the state. blessed by god.
· homosexual can NOT marry homosexual. banned by the state. forbidden by god.
looks pretty unequal to me.
Lets look at the reasoning.
Why CANT homosexuals marry homosexuals?
The loophole argument: They CAN marry. They can marry someone of the opposite sex. They could force themselves to ignore every fiber in their body that caused them to be repulsed with the very idea of a life long emotional and sexual bond with someone of the opposite sex and do it anyway. Nooooobody’s stopping them. :smug technical legality look:
The slippery slope argument that cant actually be used in court: Because if they let that happen then the next thing you know pigs will be marrying pie tins! And our society will spontaneously combust! And my home value will plummet!!
Theres one or two other arguments I hear commonly but they all come down to BECAUSE GOD SAYS SO! and are therefore inadmissible as actual legal reasons for maintaining the inequality.
But none of this explains why it should be ILLEGAL. Why should it be illegal? Thats the key to this. For WHAT reason should it be illegal to join two men or two women of adult age and sound mind in a marriage? I really cant think of any that would actually hold up under court conditions. Can you?
The point we're arguing is not about the legality of the situation...at least I'm not. My main argument is this...if you intentionally break the law, regardless of how bad that law may be, you've still broken the law. If the law needs to be changed, then it should be challanged in the courts first, and, if that doesn't work,
then go ahead and do your 'civil disobedience'. The mayor who started this whole thing was in the wrong. Good law, bad law, or otherwise, he was wrong for breaking the law without first using his legal options to change said law. He compounded his mistake by inviting others to break the law as well.
Did you know that the state of California is not honoring those licenses because they violate state law? The media hasn't put that little tidbit out, have they? So what does that say about his whole plan to legalize gay marriage? It says that all he's done is waste the time, energy, and money of several thousand people. It also says that, even though they got 'married', that their marriages have no basis in law. No other state will recognize those marriages, so those people are back to the beginning. Had they chosen to fight the correct way, then this might not have happened.