The point being? So far as the life we have found thus far, water = life. But that's irrelevant. The acknowledgment that life could be non water based should make the chance of it being on Europa even greater.
I'm really confused by your reasoning. On the one hand, you seem to be arguing that we are too "limited" in our understanding of life, that it could be much more diverse than we imagine, and the it may be based on chemical systems that have nothing to do with water, carbon, etc. On the other hand, you seem to be arguing that there is no life on Europa because the "conditions are different on Earth."
Europa is the closet conditions to Earth you're going to find anywhere in the solar system, most likely, unless you want to consider Mars a close tie for that honor. And if life can be so drastically different than what we are familiar with, that would only
increase the chances of there being life elsewhere.
We have found life in extremely inhospitable places all over, and in, our planet. Why does Europa seem so "extremely extremely" inhospitable to you... so much so that you think it impossible or unlikely for there to be life there? After all, you said "there could be life on the Moon" due to life being so drastically different, but apparently not on Europa, where there are liquid oceans, and probably thermal vents, somewhere we
have found life before.
I guess what I'm getting at is this: if we had found life on, say, the Moon, and I asked what chances you thought there are of life existing on Mars, what would you say?
Had you simply said "I think life needs conditions not too different from our own, thus I think it unlikely that there is life on Europa" I would have never given it a second thought. But from what you've stated, well... I just can't figure out where you're coming from.