BlurOfSerenity
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it sounded to me that he had a really impulsive moment. that happens. it can defy logical reasoning. it's not uncharacteristic of bipolar disorder, which by the way is different for everyone. for example, i can control mine without meds (yes, i got the dr's "ok"). some can't. he couldn't. but he may have thought he could. that's also characteristic of bipolar disorder, the "well i feel better so i'm ok without the meds" thinking.
i spent a lot of time argu.....errr, debating this issue with my fiance earlier, and he insisted to me that if the guy was bipolar and off his meds, he should have informed someone of this lest there be a problem. i told him that if i were in the situation, i wouldn't have even thought of it, the idea to do that probably wouldn't have even crossed my mind, and that it's only obvious because now we're all looking at it in hindsight. there've been plenty of times when i was medicated but had to go without for whatever reason, when i just hoped for the best. they probably hoped for the best. i wouldn't be surprised to find if his train of thought was "well, i don't have my meds but i'll be ok." and she said "ok honey". i'm not saying that is what happened, i'm just saying that is a train of thought i and i am sure many others have had at one point or another. ....
by the way, i just want to re-point-out something i've pointed out before, which is that just because you're on meds doesn't mean you won't do dumb things like that. nor is being off your meds a guarantee that bad stuff will happen. on or off, you can still make stupid decisions. something fun about bipolar disorder is that it can be very unpredictable.
i guess in short, the air marshalls did the right thing, if you say something like that there will be a consequence. it's a risk you take, whether you mean to or not. but i'm also sick of everyone going, "bipolar? off his meds? well there you go!"
i spent a lot of time argu.....errr, debating this issue with my fiance earlier, and he insisted to me that if the guy was bipolar and off his meds, he should have informed someone of this lest there be a problem. i told him that if i were in the situation, i wouldn't have even thought of it, the idea to do that probably wouldn't have even crossed my mind, and that it's only obvious because now we're all looking at it in hindsight. there've been plenty of times when i was medicated but had to go without for whatever reason, when i just hoped for the best. they probably hoped for the best. i wouldn't be surprised to find if his train of thought was "well, i don't have my meds but i'll be ok." and she said "ok honey". i'm not saying that is what happened, i'm just saying that is a train of thought i and i am sure many others have had at one point or another. ....
by the way, i just want to re-point-out something i've pointed out before, which is that just because you're on meds doesn't mean you won't do dumb things like that. nor is being off your meds a guarantee that bad stuff will happen. on or off, you can still make stupid decisions. something fun about bipolar disorder is that it can be very unpredictable.
i guess in short, the air marshalls did the right thing, if you say something like that there will be a consequence. it's a risk you take, whether you mean to or not. but i'm also sick of everyone going, "bipolar? off his meds? well there you go!"