Of all the nasty outcomes predicted for women's liberation... none was more alarming, from a feminist point of view, than the suggestion that women would eventually become just like men.
Barbara Ehrenreich
It offends me that people feel the need to see "equality" for women as merely to become the same as men.
It seems clear to me that women never were and never will be the same as men in that way, however that is not to say we are not capable of carrying out the same things effectively.
Of course women are physically different to men in terms of body strength and this might affect combat - however then women probably do have some advantages over men, and vice versa.
Unfortunately, the way any defence force is structured at the moment is entirely based around a system structured by male ideas and objectives, and so for a woman to try and suit herself to this system seems a bit futile to me. On the other hand, if there were equal opportunities for women to contribute in terms of strategic and intelligence measures in a way that allowed for effective utilisation of each individual soldiers strengths and weaknesses, male or female, then I think that might prove a more realistic and interesting option.
But then, I know nothing about the military and nothing about war - maybe it is just a mans game after all? But then there are the examples of communist armies, or whatever that see men and women as equal and I think that is pretty much an extreme example, but shouldn't be confused with equality here.
and even more pointedly, because it is such a male dominated regime - there is of course the fact that any female soldier that submits herself to a life in the military would have to face obvious sexism, and inevitably, rape (by companion or hostile forces).
besides, ANY woman in her right mind would oppose something as stupid as joining the army simply to prove that she can rightfully fight alongside men.
And I think, any woman in her right mind would see that combat and aggression, fighting and violence: WAR is pretty much a male thing anyhow, because fighting is obviously not something that most women would resort to if they were the ones in power, unless it was the last resort.