Flirting

[fury]

If you're hooked up, do you see anything wrong with you or your partner flirting with other people in front of the S.O.? What about if you or they do it behind the other's back?

And tell us what you define as flirting, cause it too can be a subjective concept. One person's idea of casual conversation could be someone else's idea of laying it on thick in terms of flirting.

 

[Jeslek]

I flirt And so does my girlfriend. I don't mind, and neither does she, because we both desire each other at this point.

 

[unclehobart]

I do it full time without realizing it. I'm not sure I can shut it off.

 

[Leslie]

I do it full time without realizing it. I'm not sure I can shut it off.

same here...

I think it's cool, if it's open, behind backs it gets a little shady.

 

[fury]

 

[Leslie]

 

[Gato_Solo]

I'm a shameless flirt, and my fiancee knows it. That's why I don't go anywhere without her.

 

[freako104]

i do it and im single. i think its really if she allows me then yes. if not then no. same to her if im not shes not if i am then she can.

 

[ris]

i'm a man-whore plain and simple, i flirt quite badly but would never lay a hand on another woman as i'm spoken for.

i've always flirted pretty badly, there are friends of mine that if the wife didn't know she would probly think i am trying to get in their knickers but for us its part of the friendly banter.

 

[Luis G]

i think flirting is bad, looking is ok

 

[ris]

looking is ok, flirting is bad, touching is right out...

 

[nalani]

I do it full time without realizing it. I'm not sure I can shut it off.

*recalls a grocery store cashier in Illinois*

 

[unclehobart]

*recalls a blonde hottie grocery store cashier in Illinois*

 

[nalani]

I wouldn't go that far ... *thinks you're getting your fantasies and your memories mixed up*

 

[unclehobart]

its one and the same for a guy

 

[kuulani]

me flirt? *innocent look*

 

[greenfreak]

i think flirting is bad, looking is ok

I'm not touching that one.

I flirt too but Rusty reads the boards from time to time, so he's aware. He's also aware that I'm determined to spend the rest of my life loving only him so he's ok with that. I wouldn't flirt with someone in front of him but he knows I'm a huggy, touchy person with my friends too. Verbal flirting just seems so much worse.

When you flirt but feel like the other person is flirting too but that they might feel something behind it, that's bad. That's when you have to put a stop to it to make sure no one gets the wrong idea.

For the record, if Rusty ever flirted with anyone, I would freak on him.

 

[Luis G]

I'm not touching that one.

i never said i do the right thing

 

[freako104]

hey gf isnt it a bit hypocritical that you flirt but wont let him? he loves you and if you do shouldnt he be allowed to?

 

[greenfreak]

hey gf isnt it a bit hypocritical that you flirt but wont let him? he loves you and if you do shouldnt he be allowed to?

Yes it is. No he should not, and does not-he knows what a jealous woman I am.