To just talk to the guy, looks come first as well as the vibe I get from you. If the vibe I get from you is bad, and you're walking self assured like you have something to prove, chances are, I'm not going to be talking to you. Next after I start talking with the guy, comes the personality. How do we get along? Do we understand each other? Do we understand the hidden meaning behind each other's words? (of course this is assuming i'm looking to see if imma lay him ) And last comes money. Does he have a job? If no, is there any bad habits that would make him mooch off my money? If he has a job, well good for him. He's got money. No big, as I feel horrible if I have to mooch off people so yeah.