Ardsgaine
Active Member
You guys can't win the argument, so you have to make it personal....
This isn't Love and Lifestyles. I have plenty of sympathy for Leslie's situation. I'm not going to let her use that sympathy to win the debate, though. Regardless of what she's going through, I don't think it's right for the state to take money from someone else to help her. I think that any help she gets from people should be voluntary. She should actually have to say to them, "I'm in a bad fix, can you help me out?" And they should have the right to say, "no, I'm afraid I can't afford to. I have other things in my life that are more important than helping out a complete stranger." When people are forced to give up the things they want to do with their money in order to help out someone who has no connection to them, my sympathy is with them first because their rights are being violated.
And, yes... I feel very noble about that.
This isn't Love and Lifestyles. I have plenty of sympathy for Leslie's situation. I'm not going to let her use that sympathy to win the debate, though. Regardless of what she's going through, I don't think it's right for the state to take money from someone else to help her. I think that any help she gets from people should be voluntary. She should actually have to say to them, "I'm in a bad fix, can you help me out?" And they should have the right to say, "no, I'm afraid I can't afford to. I have other things in my life that are more important than helping out a complete stranger." When people are forced to give up the things they want to do with their money in order to help out someone who has no connection to them, my sympathy is with them first because their rights are being violated.
And, yes... I feel very noble about that.