Ardsgaine said:Ol' man is more your speed. In terms of debating skills, I don't see any difference.
Eh?
As for divorces? My Mom has been through two of them now at age 52. I must say we never were on welfare except for a little while when my stepfather was in prison and my mom had a baby when he was in prison. She could not work and my stepfather didn't help, I guess he couldn't you know. I think she was on welfare for around 2 months at the most after she gave birth. Even though she was on welfare my stepfather had to pay back the state for the assistance it gave her while he was in prison.. I think probably less than that. I feel social services in that case were needed other wise in my whole life my mother has never gotten welfare. She went back to school when she was 40 and got a 4 year Registered Nursing degree. SHe has always worked. I think in certain situation welfare goes overboard though. In leslies case I guess I am not sure about. If her kid is really young and needs her there then I can see where in her case it would be okay or maybe the baby has special needs like physical problems with its health. I don't feel a good excuse is that she is trying to sort some things out in her head right now though to get welfare. If she is in school then indeed give her some support.
Every body goes through bad things. I spent half of my childhood awake at night waiting with a baseball bat in my hands in bed for that time that my step father would goto far and actually try and kill my mom or me. I guess my stepfater went to prison for pulling a gun on my mom once and pulling the trigger. Luckily the gun was not loaded. He has went to prison three different times for drugs, guns, home violence etc.....
I agree with welfare in certain cases but I think there should be hard limits set for it.
I don't know leslies situation so I am not going to pass judgment. I do how ever know squiggies and he is hopeless, LOL