I have no doubt that if the bulk of the power to govern was with the states then people like you would be complaining about how powerful the states are, how they try to run your lives and manage your business.
I'm not forced to live in Massachusetts. I don't care what they do...so long as it's affects don't wander to where I do live.
However, to some degree, you're right. The state, whether it's a federal beauracracy or a nation-state or a municipality, should never have power over it's citizens. We the people, not they the rulers. That's what the fight was for a couple hundred years ago.
And I know you'll be complaining about it because of one statement you made: " We should be fighting them with everything we have." No justification given. Just fight them for the sake of fighting somebody
Justification is given by every stroke of a pen. Our government is overstepping its authority. It's grown too big & powerful. We've become lazy, lackadaisical & unaware. We've handed power to those that wish us harm, and we've done it gladly.
study this
That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed.