Is it possible to be.........
- Thread starter Philly
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So am I.
Love takes a vast amount of time & commitment, patience & understanding. It is earned, never given lightly.
It is the polar opposite of lust. Describe this persons walk, his scent, his mannerisms. What are his ambitions (not what he says, what he does)? I bet you can't because you don't know this person.
Love takes a vast amount of time & commitment, patience & understanding. It is earned, never given lightly.
It is the polar opposite of lust. Describe this persons walk, his scent, his mannerisms. What are his ambitions (not what he says, what he does)? I bet you can't because you don't know this person.
Thulsa Doom
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i fell in love with someone i met online but i had to actually meet them a couple times to know i was in love. before i just thought i was using them for sex. what a shock for me eh!
BlurOfSerenity
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as someone who was in a two year relationship with someone online, i can testify, that YES!! it is possible to fall in love with someone online.
it's still possible to build trust and understanding online... that's what being friends first is for.
but then you realise how great they are, and bam! you're an item, and people look at you funny when you tell them your boyfriend lives overseas and you've never met him.
so yeah.
people who say it's not possible, are probably either very skeptical, haven't been in such a relationship, or both.
it's still possible to build trust and understanding online... that's what being friends first is for.
but then you realise how great they are, and bam! you're an item, and people look at you funny when you tell them your boyfriend lives overseas and you've never met him.
so yeah.
people who say it's not possible, are probably either very skeptical, haven't been in such a relationship, or both.
Thulsa Doom
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Philly said:
whats wrong with using our bodies?
AlphaTroll
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ash r said:
Erm, please explain to a pleb like me how the hell you could call someone your boyfriend if you've never met him? Do you have any intention of ever meeting? Or will you get married online & have online babies eventually?
breaky
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re : is it possible to be.......
i bloody hope so or i'm about to make a really serious error, i'll let you know in a couple of weeks if it's possible or not and whether it works. but can i just ask whether you actually speak with him or just type stuff? cause you can tell alot about a person from their voice. i wish you all the best if you do think it's love cause i certainly don't want to be the only one here who believe it's possible. seriously you get to know alot about a person this way sometimes, i mean i believe i know this guy better than what most people know about there partners cause we really have to express our feelings alot more clearly and are very open with each other and since we can't touch each other so we have to talk instead. good luck with it and don't let anyway tell you that you are stupid for believing in such a thing, follow your heart
NB get yourself a webcam, lots of fun to be had there!
i bloody hope so or i'm about to make a really serious error, i'll let you know in a couple of weeks if it's possible or not and whether it works. but can i just ask whether you actually speak with him or just type stuff? cause you can tell alot about a person from their voice. i wish you all the best if you do think it's love cause i certainly don't want to be the only one here who believe it's possible. seriously you get to know alot about a person this way sometimes, i mean i believe i know this guy better than what most people know about there partners cause we really have to express our feelings alot more clearly and are very open with each other and since we can't touch each other so we have to talk instead. good luck with it and don't let anyway tell you that you are stupid for believing in such a thing, follow your heart
NB get yourself a webcam, lots of fun to be had there!
CydCharisse
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Re: re : is it possible to be.......
I met my fiancee on-line, but I fell in love with him after we met a few times in person...
I met my fiancee on-line, but I fell in love with him after we met a few times in person...
I think what Gonz is trying so tactlessly to say is that it's hard to get to know someone til you meet them. He may seem like a knight in shining armor, but online gives us confindences that we don't otherwise have, as well as the ability to edit what we say. It gives us that split second longer to think about what we are going to say, and avoid saying the stupid or hurtful things we end up saying in RL. Just be careful is all, don't give your whole heart til you've met this guy in person. You just never know.