Nature or nurture

[spike]

You know, making your sexuality the grand/only focus of 'who you are'

Anti gays act like that's their big complaint but I don't see it being an issue. The gay people I know have other focus. Some of the straight guys I knew in college didn't though.

I don't see much difference between the Folsom Street thing and the Erotic Exotic ball if you're going to complain in that direction.

 

[spike]

What you fail to understand is I don't care about their bed partners. The hypocrisy of it all is what disturbs me.

Changing definitions of words to make them feel better about themselves.

Watching the fags preen & prance, wishing they were women but liking their penis too much.

Watching them make spectacles of themselves just for the reaction then complaining about the reaction.

Changing the rules to suit their tiny little fractional population because they feel guilt over who, or what, they are.

Being offended that they are not, or choose not to be, something else. Wanting to be normal yet moving the boundry.

Anger over the fact that their feelings are an abnormality of nature. If it can't be changed, learn to live with it & STFU. If it can be, then STFU.

Sleep with whom you will. Just don't make me party to it.

What you just typed actually makes you a hypocrite that should STFU. Not them. You claim to know all these "feelings" and reasons and you make up some ludicrous stereotypes but you actually have no clue.

 

[ResearchMonkey]

How so?

 

[jimpeel]

What is the public thing?

Is this public enough?

 

[chcr]

Sleep with whom you will. Just don't make me party to it.

And don't talk about it out loud.

 

[Gato_Solo]

And don't talk about it out loud.

I don't discuss my sexual performance in public. Its nobodys business but mine. I'm sure most people are that way about their sexuality. What we have here, is a small percentage of a small percentage being upset that they are not 'accepted as part of the norm'. They want to be loud and 'in your face' about it, and then complain when somebody tells them to STFU.

 

[ResearchMonkey]

I don't discuss my sexual performance in public.

Naw, EVERYONE talks about Altron's, ...or lack thereof



J/K Alt

 

[Gato_Solo]

Naw, EVERYONE talks about Altron's, ...or lack thereof



J/K Alt

Thats just idle speculation. A hypothesis, asitwere...

 

[spike]

Is this public enough?

How many attended compared with the Erotic Exotic ball or the porn conventions in Las Vegas?

 

[chcr]

I don't discuss my sexual performance in public. Its nobodys business but mine. I'm sure most people are that way about their sexuality. What we have here, is a small percentage of a small percentage being upset that they are not 'accepted as part of the norm'. They want to be loud and 'in your face' about it, and then complain when somebody tells them to STFU.

I've never, ever heard a homosexual person discuss his or her (might like to hear about hers) sexual "performance" in public. What most gay-bashers seem to be against is them discussing their sexual preference. Pretty much everyone I know does that from time to time. I just don't see the problem. Don't like it? Don't think about it.

Just as an aside, in my experience your not discussing your "performance" makes you a rare commodity among your peer group (men in the military). I do however, agree that it's rather disgusting though. Regardless of the sexual preference of the "discusser."

 

[Gato_Solo]

I've never, ever heard a homosexual person discuss his or her (might like to hear about hers) sexual "performance" in public.

I have. I went to Oberlin College, which has the dubious honor of being 1/3 gay.

What most gay-bashers seem to be against is them discussing their sexual preference. Pretty much everyone I know does that from time to time. I just don't see the problem. Don't like it? Don't think about it.

Kinda hard not to think about it when you hear it often enough.

Just as an aside, in my experience your not discussing your "performance" makes you a rare commodity among your peer group (men in the military). I do however, agree that it's rather disgusting though. Regardless of the sexual preference of the "discusser."

It's nobody's business but my own...and its not as rare as you'd think...

 

[chcr]

I have. I went to Oberlin College, which has the dubious honor of being 1/3 gay.

I was a musician for a lot of my adult life. The over and under was probably about the same. Just because I didn't hear them doesn't mean they didn't discuss it among themselves though.

Kinda hard not to think about it when you hear it often enough.

I suppose it is.

It's nobody's business but my own...and its not as rare as you'd think...

Most of the military guys I know drink a lot too (a lot). Might be related. Ya think? I've always assumed that most people who talk all the time about how much they get and how good they are at it are lying anyway.

 

[jimpeel]

How many attended compared with the Erotic Exotic ball or the porn conventions in Las Vegas?

I don't know. How many in those two events marched in a parade scheduled for that event; and had public sex on the street in front of ordinary men, women, and children? I notice that the link to the Folsom Street event has been deleted because it was too graphic; unless you consider a man on the street fellating another man in public not too graphic.

 

[jimpeel]

I've never, ever heard a homosexual person discuss his or her (might like to hear about hers) sexual "performance" in public. What most gay-bashers seem to be against is them discussing their sexual preference.

No, they simply parade it around for all to see; and that's a MILD example.

 

[chcr]

...and some bikers scream "Show me your tits" to every woman they see. One offends your delicate sensibilities. Sounds like your problem, not theirs. Hardly the majority in either case now, do you suppose?

 

[paul_valaru]

No, they simply parade it around for all to see; and that's a MILD example.

And shit, some people wear crosses around their necks, parading so everyone can see. If you have a problem with it, don't look. It's a gay pride parade!!

 

[jimpeel]

And shit, some people wear crosses around their necks, parading so everyone can see. If you have a problem with it, don't look. It's a gay pride parade!!

Just how, pray tell, does the wearing of a crucifix equate to some guy publicly blowing his counterparts on a public street; leading people around by a leash while wearing S&M bondage garb, etc?

I know Libs are wont to stretch things to take the subject off topic; but you have ascended to new heights with this one!

 

[jimpeel]

Anyone note the caption of this picture?

Description: Friction - Vancouver's newest bathhouse - opening soon.

Anyone besides myself know what goes on in these bathhouses? Why the city of San Francisco had to shut them down? Why it took three years for them to accomplish that task? Why those bathhouses are now making a burgeoning comeback?

 

[paul_valaru]

Why those bathhouses are now making a burgeoning comeback?

cause the bathrooms are filled with republicans?

 

[jimpeel]

cause the bathrooms are filled with republicans?

Made me smile on that one; but this is a very serious problem and people are dying because of it. See if you know any of these terms used by homosexuals:

Barebacking
The gift
Giving the gift
Bugchaser
Glory hole