What's one thing you don't share? It's yours and that's that!
Someone once said to me "When we move in together it'll be OUR computer." I said "No, it's MY computer. I bought it and it will always be MINE." I am posessive of my laptop, I am not so picky about who I let use it anymore (aslong as I'd consider them a "friend" and not an "acquaintance" and I'm around) but there is only one person I'd leave with it unsupervised and he's earned the trust over a VERY long period of time.
Someone once said to me "When we move in together it'll be OUR computer." I said "No, it's MY computer. I bought it and it will always be MINE." I am posessive of my laptop, I am not so picky about who I let use it anymore (aslong as I'd consider them a "friend" and not an "acquaintance" and I'm around) but there is only one person I'd leave with it unsupervised and he's earned the trust over a VERY long period of time.