tonks said:
this is amusing to me....so much emphasis is put on finding yourself...when all you have to do is paying attention to yourself...what do like? dislkie? what appeals to you and what doesn't...the big thing is not being concerned with how others perceive you...that's the rub...weighing personal self satisfaction over acceptance...hmmm...
Well this would be by the books method of how to be an individual but then "words" of the fellow civilians ring in your ears....words that hurt. While it maybe a suitable disposition for some ultimetly many fall to the prying eyes and opiniated BS of others...yours truly was a victim to this to a great extent and still is in many ways.
Individuality and what it stand for today is just laughable to me these days. A true non-conformist never makes it a point to stand out, infact he/she prefers to get lost in the sea of everyday colors and visuals, their mission isn't to be a sore thumb in society.
I am thinking how kids todays don't even know what true self means anymore.