Scanty
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LastLegionary said:If you are only after happiness, well, lots of things can make you happy, from sex, food, driving a car, climbing a mountain, etc. But, friendship is more than that, its FRIENDSHIP At least that is what I feel... I don't want to be happy all the time, I want to cry sometimes, be sad, be excited, be fearful, etc.
Yes, but why do you not want to be happy all the time? Why do you want to cry, be sad, be excited, be fearful sometimes? Because you feel that otherwise it may give you some kind of mundane, featureless existance. And why would that be bad? Because it wouldn't seem right to you and therefore you wouldn't be happy.
I don't think of happiness as going round all day and every day with a smile on my face, just feeling the one emotion all the time. To me, happiness is more of an unconscious state of mind that means you are at peace within yourself.
What I'm saying is, if you have 'happiness', it is irrelevant what form it comes in, or where you acquire it. The 'eternal happiness' choice in the poll is the only one that can apply to every other aspect, if you see what I mean. It doesn't matter what kind of material things you choose to live forever with...if happiness is still had.