Nope, no baby yet. Still waiting, and yes it is the hardest part. My midwifes only check the cervix if you ask them to. Last time they checked (a week ago) I was starting to efface but that's it. My last appointment on Weds they said that her head was way way way down there and that COULD be a sign of impending labor, but in medical terms impending labor is anywhere between 5 minutes and one month.
I have heard about the cabbage thing too and that it has to be frozen, so I will try it when I start getting ouchie. I have little bursts of energy but they are always followed by a full day in bed the next day. I am just too exhausted for words and it sucks cause there is so much I need to get done.
Inky, I am sure you that you couldn't pay me enough to clean your apartment. I've heard stories about the trash, the garbage disposal and *shudder* the bathroom.