ClaireBear said:
My take on situations like this is this...
The "parents" involved had to adopt they were "denide" a child naturally and I believe that is for a reason. These people are incapable, whether through ignorance, mental instability or just stupidity, of caring for a child and nature denide them that right!!!!!
The same.. can be said for couples under going firtility treatment... there is a reason they can't have kids and although its a physical problem... it may just be just as well that they can't. My great grandmother had a saying "There'll never be a baby in the house where there is already a "baby" "
My apologies to anyone who has/was/is adopt(ed/ing) or under go(ne/ing) fertility treatment... they're my views on the matter... we are "playing God" or rather messing with the natural balance or order of the world...
Don't even get me started on my views concerning world poverty / famine / natural disaster...
It may be messing with the natural order of things, but using your argument. Why are people that are fertile allowed to have so many children that they can't take care of them and end up dropping them off in a dumpster somewhere? Shouldn't the "natural order of things" made them sterile too?
Even if were are "playing God", we are doing good. Why would we let the children suffer? Bad parents give birth to 15 babies and not take care of them. According to you this is okay that they suffer and go hungry and get left on grocery store shelves to hopefully be found by someone else or simply starve to death. What if a child's birth parents die before they are able to take care of themselves? Is it the natural order to let that child die? Is it the natural order to deny that child a good life because we don't want to "play God"? Playing God in certain ways is no way bad. Giving others the gift of life, a chance to expierence things, and the ability to love others is in no way wrong. I think it is wrong to let them suffer in that back alley dumpster.
I understand that you may have very good reasons behind your argument against adoption, but the way you have presented it has come across as very inhumane and uncaring. What if you have a child and somehow pass away before they are able to take of themselve? What would you want to happen to them? Let the natural order take it's course and deny your child of life?