Stop talking about/to each other.
You would be showing your men the respect you say you believe that they deserve were you not conducting yourselves in such a manner. This thread has been a disgusting tribute to them. Bad show.
At this time of Remembrance, I wanted to share these pages.
Check out the digital archive (warning - sound - veteran speaking when page opens) as well as the other collections linked on the homepage. One could spend days reading.