IDLEchild
Well-Known Member
Ok so another conversation ensuses where i am labeled a heartless oaf because i see something my way on a subject.
Scenario: A man and a woman have a child unplanned and bascially it is unwanted at that point in their lives. The child is brought up with good care and thought: well fed, well clothed, sheltered, educated and such yet along the point the child is made to realize that it's birth killed the potential of it's parents. The father had dreams and aspirations to be something better yet had to put them on indefinite hold due the unforseen bith of his offspring, same as the mother.
My POV: The child should be made to realize that his/her birth brought on about the death of it's parents dreams, not to say it is the childs fault entirely, infact not at all but still the child should be told of this unfortunate happening so in the future the child can better understand it's freedom and all the oppertunities it gets to enjoy just because it chooses not to rush into things (and learns to buy expensive and more reliable condoms).
Conclusion: I am labeled a heartless douchebag because i am emotionally scarring the child. I truly believe my point was misunderstood due to bad verbal improvisation by me. i do not mean to inform the kid in a condescending and negative way but more of a wisdom teaching.
Any views you have on this?
Scenario: A man and a woman have a child unplanned and bascially it is unwanted at that point in their lives. The child is brought up with good care and thought: well fed, well clothed, sheltered, educated and such yet along the point the child is made to realize that it's birth killed the potential of it's parents. The father had dreams and aspirations to be something better yet had to put them on indefinite hold due the unforseen bith of his offspring, same as the mother.
My POV: The child should be made to realize that his/her birth brought on about the death of it's parents dreams, not to say it is the childs fault entirely, infact not at all but still the child should be told of this unfortunate happening so in the future the child can better understand it's freedom and all the oppertunities it gets to enjoy just because it chooses not to rush into things (and learns to buy expensive and more reliable condoms).
Conclusion: I am labeled a heartless douchebag because i am emotionally scarring the child. I truly believe my point was misunderstood due to bad verbal improvisation by me. i do not mean to inform the kid in a condescending and negative way but more of a wisdom teaching.
Any views you have on this?