Another WTF!!!
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Gato_Solo
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First grade, actually. I wonder where they learned that...
JTP
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I never had sex until I was 20 years old, which is pretty late, from what I understand.
Part of it was because my parents were really strict and didn't allow much free time.
Part of it was that Sex Ed we got in school- those V.D. films were pretty effective in the abstinence department!
Part of it was because my parents were really strict and didn't allow much free time.
Part of it was that Sex Ed we got in school- those V.D. films were pretty effective in the abstinence department!
Always blame the dad because it sure as hell can't be what's seen in everyday life.
MrBishop
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Most child abuse comes from family. Usually the male member of the family with the greatest access to the child. Usually, that'd be the father..occasionally, an uncle or cousin, sometimes it's a babysitter or a teacher. Usually someone in a position of power.
The snatch-and-run pedophiles are a far smaller percentage.
The snatch-and-run pedophiles are a far smaller percentage.
Gato_Solo
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Nope. I'm not buying that crap about the father. Step-father, maybe, but father, no.
nalani
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Actually, the stats on fathers molesting and sexually abusing their own children was on Oprah yesterday. I was shocked and astounded, I had no idea .. I mean, I knew it went on but I didn't know how rampant it was.
Lies, damned lies & statistics. Unless you know exactly who was asked exactly what, it's too easy to fudge the stats to fit your agenda.
Gato_Solo
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Those can be unreliable, too, as arrested doesn not mean guilty. That game has been 'played' for quite a while. Don't like the husband, accuse him of something heinous. My ex acused me of adultery. Turns out she was the one creeping and , although I was suspicious, I had no proof until after the divorce. By your logic, just being accused of adultery makes me an adulterer.
nalani
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not only did they use arrest records but they used their own computers (the fathers) .. some had started an instructional "how to molest your daughter" websites giving specific 'how to' information for varying ages, 0-2 years, 2-4 years, etc. It's was sickening. Other fathers had subscribed to these sites and they trade pictures and videos like baseball cards.
I'm not saying all fathers, Gonz. I'm just saying it is a reality. Hell, I personally know two friends (seperately) whose fathers molested them. It's real.
I'm not saying all fathers, Gonz. I'm just saying it is a reality. Hell, I personally know two friends (seperately) whose fathers molested them. It's real.
I didn't assume you were. Unfortunately, our society has insufficient value for fathers & is quick to accuse (and believe accusations) them.