AnomalousEntity said:No one is monogomous, serial promiscuity at best. So is that supposed to make me feel better?...that my lover isnt sleeping with someone else TODAY? *shrug* No, I wouldnt be happy knowing my wife had been with 20 other guys before me that almost makes the monogomous meaningless...this should go double if your the jealous type. If they would sleep with 20 different people it wouldnt take much for them to cheat on you (trust me on this).
Sorry but this is absolute crap. Are you trying to say that everyone who has led a promiscuous life is likely to cheat on their partner? Personally I couldn't care less if a person had shagged half of England in the past, it doens't have any effect on the current relationship. I've never lived the life of a monk......but I've always had the balls to call it a day when a relationship has run it's course. Only a coward cheats behind someone's back.
I don't believe promiscuity is a habit that can't/won't be broke....sure some people live their whole lives like that.....but just because some people have a lot of partners before they meet the right one, certainly doesn't mean that they are gonna be cheaters their whole lives.
A lot of people live chaste lives for various reasons (religious, moral, health etc) but a lot of people also spent their time, in my case my late teens early twenties, experimenting and learning about sex with a few different partners.........and those experiences certainly havn't made me any more likely to cheat on my partner, in fact having "been there, done that" has problably given me more than enough experience to fully appreciate the relationship I'm in (how many stories have you heard about men and women running off with the neighbour after many "happy" years of marraige?).