Did you respect her in the morning?

No regrets!:D I did it and then thought "oh so this is it, I'm not a virgin anymore". Didn't feel much different really I was just really glad that I finally knew what It felt like. I remember lying there sorta thinking...well "fiddle-dee-dee... " ;) "...I'm finally loosing my virginity; so this is what it feels like huh? " ...and hoping it wouldn't be as uncomfortable, next time.... I respected myself afterwards definately, because it was a concious decision I made and I'm glad i waited till i was mature enough in my thinking to deal with it and not let it have a great effect on me. I knew what to expect and knew the guy i was doing it with. Also glad that I waited till i could do it with someone I liked and who respected me, and someone who I trusted. And that it wasn't the result of some fleeting drunken teenage screw with some horny retard .

True, I admit my first time wasn't that great, or comfortable -(All i really remember was that it hurt)- but neither was my first blow job - you get a penis in your face for the first time and it's a bit, well, repulsive... (I don't know whether that was a psychological thing or not, probably)... I gave my first blow job long before I lost my virginity.

I know that now, you get used to it, I enjoy giving them - and I love penises now too.;p the only thing I worry about is if I am doing it right. Sooo, No regrets.... you do it and learn, and keep learning, - and it just gets better and better...YOU get better and better heheh....

I'd say that loosing my virginity was tougher - in a physical sense, than the blow job because it was just plain uncomfortable, and I was sore fora while afterwards. But I expected that.... The blow job didn't hurt at all, but psychologically it was a bit uncomfortable because I hadn't gotten that close to a penis before :/, and where you have the guy pushing you into doing it...when you don't want to, makes the experience a bit dodgy.
 
questions

:confused:been thinking....

guys, do you still respect her?Girls, do you still respect yourself?
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Why should a guy loose respect for her?

Why should a girl disrespect herself?

And I wonder what would happen if this question was asked the other way around? hmmmm

...........GIRLS, do you still respect HIM? GUYS, do you still respect yourself????

ALSO

freako104 :
i dont know. she was kind of a slut who just wanted my body
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paul_valaru :
I didn't respect her in the first place........
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What causes you to respect/disrespect a someone after sleeping with them?

If you disrespect her, Is it just because she is more sexually experienced than you?

Because she is labelled a "slut" ?

Isn't this a bit of a double standard?

I want answers :devious:
 
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I respected myself...I was young and in love and it was a great time

Physically painful...sex
Emotionally painful...sex
Scary...Blowjob...it's like "uhhhh what am I suppose to do???"
 
the first time i ever did, i didnt know you were supposed to move your head, lol :lol2:

but yeah, being madly in love with the person kinda helps you feel better about having done stuff.
i vow to never give myself to anyone whose love for me is absent or can be questioned.
 
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scarlet said:
What causes you to respect/disrespect a someone after sleeping with them?

If you disrespect her, Is it just because she is more sexually experienced than you?

Because she is labelled a "slut" ?

Isn't this a bit of a double standard?

I want answers :devious:
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well my not respecting her had nothing to do with the sex, before nor after.

I don't beleive in labelling people sluts, it's a bad double standard, everyone should do what they want with who they want.
 
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paul_valaru said:
well my not respecting her had nothing to do with the sex, before nor after.

I don't beleive in labelling people sluts, it's a bad double standard, everyone should do what they want with who they want.
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Aye Aye

...so why didn't you respect her then?
 
So, would anyone here opt for that reconstructive surgury to have your virginity restored? Anyone lie about being a virgin still?

Anyone actually still a virgin?
 
Not being a woman, I'd be grasping at straws for that. But, I'm told there's a bond of some kind formed by having your lover inflict the pain/pleasure of deflowering you. You'd have to tell me.
 
I remember his name but there's no bond. I don't remember him fondly but for a completely different reason. He was a friend that became more and it ended very bitterly but I can't remember why. All I do remember is that he acted very childishly.
 
There's no advantage to being (or deflowering, for that matter) a virgin. Trust me, I've experienced both. Why the hell would I want it back?

As to the original question, I did respect her the morning after. It was the slow decline into adsurdity over the next few months that destroyed that.
 
Professur said:
side note: girls (and maybe a few guys, i dunno) which was tougher for you? Losing your virginity, or giving your first blowjob?
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Giving my first blowjob. I still can't do it. :shrug:
 
I didn't know her name
I never saw her again
but I'll always remember her breasts
and how fast she she got out of her halter top
when I produced a Ka-bar and suggested I cut the tie that was not coming loose

guess she thought I had something else in mind?!?
 
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