PrincessLissa
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The thread about breast implants got me thinking. I like to think that I am pretty lax parent when it comes to my child making her own choices. I feel that if I tell her "no" to much and choose to fight every battle rather than choosing the battles that really matter, I may end up with a child who will do whatever she wants and will rebel against me and worst of all, not talk to me. I know that kids hide things from thier parents, but as far as kids go, I want mine to open with me.
So my question is, how far would you let your child go?
I have always said that tattoos have to wait until they are 18. I have tattoos, but the more I think about it, I am pretty glad I didn't get one of the ones I wanted to get in high school. I think that some piercings are okay, and that funky hairdos are fine. I want my daughter to be educated enough to make her own decisions, but also know that if she gets busted for something bad, I WILL let her suffer the consequences. I also want her to be able to call me and say "mom, I've had a few beers tonight, can you please help me with a ride home?" I will be disapointed, but I would rather her be more scared to drive drunk than to call me and admit she was drunk.
So my question is, how far would you let your child go?
I have always said that tattoos have to wait until they are 18. I have tattoos, but the more I think about it, I am pretty glad I didn't get one of the ones I wanted to get in high school. I think that some piercings are okay, and that funky hairdos are fine. I want my daughter to be educated enough to make her own decisions, but also know that if she gets busted for something bad, I WILL let her suffer the consequences. I also want her to be able to call me and say "mom, I've had a few beers tonight, can you please help me with a ride home?" I will be disapointed, but I would rather her be more scared to drive drunk than to call me and admit she was drunk.