JJR512
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I'm a member at another message board (not a general topic one, this one is dedicated to a specific topic). A female member there has noticed that we both live in the same general area, are going (or intend to go) to the same school, and are both interested in some of the same things. She has contacted me on AIM and struck up a conversation with me. She is very nice and friendly.
Those of you who know me probably know that I can be pretty dense at reading between the lines. I can't tell if she's just trying to make friends with people who live in her area, or if she's trying to find something more than that.
I mentioned that since we'll probably be taking classes on the same campus on the same days, that from time to time we could get together for lunch, "since we'll be in the same place at the same time" (my words to her). She said that would be cool.
I'm married and I have children. I don't really want to be a cheater. This girl is cute. I wouldn't mind meeting her in person, hanging out and being friends, but I wouldn't want it to be more than that. As far as I know, she doesn't know yet that I'm married with children. I don't know if I should just mention it to her, because if all she's truly trying to do is meet friends, it would be weird if she gets the impression I'm telling her I'm "off limits".
I'm also not sure what, if anything, I should mention about this to my wife. She can be jealous of pretty girls, but at the same time she has some close "guy friends" that she hangs out with from time to time, sometimes without me. I trust her enough (and him) not to worry, and it's not really fair for her to be upset if I have a friend who happens to be a cute girl, but such is life.
Those of you who know me probably know that I can be pretty dense at reading between the lines. I can't tell if she's just trying to make friends with people who live in her area, or if she's trying to find something more than that.
I mentioned that since we'll probably be taking classes on the same campus on the same days, that from time to time we could get together for lunch, "since we'll be in the same place at the same time" (my words to her). She said that would be cool.
I'm married and I have children. I don't really want to be a cheater. This girl is cute. I wouldn't mind meeting her in person, hanging out and being friends, but I wouldn't want it to be more than that. As far as I know, she doesn't know yet that I'm married with children. I don't know if I should just mention it to her, because if all she's truly trying to do is meet friends, it would be weird if she gets the impression I'm telling her I'm "off limits".
I'm also not sure what, if anything, I should mention about this to my wife. She can be jealous of pretty girls, but at the same time she has some close "guy friends" that she hangs out with from time to time, sometimes without me. I trust her enough (and him) not to worry, and it's not really fair for her to be upset if I have a friend who happens to be a cute girl, but such is life.