Gato_Solo
Out-freaking-standing OTC member
PowerballWinner said:So parents are supposed to monitor their kids 24 hours a day huh?
No. The kids have to sleep sometime. Other times they are at school. Once you become a parent, it becomes your responsibility to raise responsible adults. Your job. Not the state, the neighbors, the schools, or the babysitter. If you're arguing this point, then you are obviously not ready to be a parent.
Powerballwinner said:Sorry but many parents are working.
No problem. Who said they couldn't work? They've got a responsibility to feed and clothe their child as well as teach him/her responsibility. Part of that means working. That's why parenting is a 2-person job. It can be done with one, but it works much better with 2, responsible adults.
Powerballwinner said:I myself plan on designing and selling a violent computer game and I am not going to advertise it to anyone under the age of 25. I'll make it clear in English that copies of my game are not to be resold to people under 25. It's meant for people who want a simulation of what it would be like to lead a bunch of star systems. I'll even have a special program in it designed to stop the game after a certain period of playing time. What about game companies, who make violent games, that condone people who go to their message boards & say their violent people. Wouldn't you say that the game companies have a responsibility to make it clear to those people that their attitudes must change and if not, then why not?
No, I don't think it's the companies responsibility to 'make it clear'. They are responsible for putting an E for Everyone, a T for teen-agers, or an M for mature folks. Once again, you try to shift parental responsibility over to somebody else. The game company didn't bring that child into the world, so the game company isn't responsible for the actions of that child. The parents are. No amount of BS on your part will change that, and that is exactly what you're shoveling right now. I'll break it down even further, since you either cannot, or will not, understand what I wrote.
1. Where did the child get the money to buy the game?
2. Where did the child buy the game, and who took him/her there?
3. Who's home is the game being played in?
4. Who's internet connection is being used?
All of these answers except for one...unless you're incredibly naive, point in only one direction. The parents. When raising children to function in the world, a parent has full responsibility from birth until age of majority/emancipation. If you are not taking an active role in your child's life, then you are not a parent. If you are blaming something outside of your home for your child's behavior, then you are not a parent. If you spend all of your time at work, and expect somebody outside your spouse to watch your child/children, then you are not a parent. If you think having your child's friendship is more important than having your child's respect, then you are not a parent. Too much of what you stated in your last post is based on ignorance. I pray that you won't have any children before you realize what responsibility is, because it seems to be lacking in your current state of mind.