Do you think it is possible for someone who you were VERY close to as a lover can become a very close platonic friend or will that not work?
This guy was mt bf for 2.5 months. We broke up, a month later we started hanging out again and quickly became lovers again but not a couple. Although it was basically like bf and gf without the commitment. That lasted for about 1.5 months or some btw...Anyway, do you think it is possible to keep the extreme closeness and bonds that we feel without having the sexual stuff included?
He has decided that for my sake we should stop all the sexual stuff. He wants to sleep with this other girl and while it woudl be a one night stand he doesn't want to do it while we are sleeping together despite the fact that we are uncommited and i have told him more that one that I would deal with it and be OK in the end. I won't get into the long story of why we were uncommited but basically he has a commitment phobia and he has been hurt before and refuses to be hurt again and thus does now posess the ability ot love. We won't get into how I feel about him making decissions and telling me that they are fo rmy own good because it irks me greatly.
Anyway, I reallt don't want to lose the closeness and neither does he. Do you think it's possible for it to work?
This guy was mt bf for 2.5 months. We broke up, a month later we started hanging out again and quickly became lovers again but not a couple. Although it was basically like bf and gf without the commitment. That lasted for about 1.5 months or some btw...Anyway, do you think it is possible to keep the extreme closeness and bonds that we feel without having the sexual stuff included?
He has decided that for my sake we should stop all the sexual stuff. He wants to sleep with this other girl and while it woudl be a one night stand he doesn't want to do it while we are sleeping together despite the fact that we are uncommited and i have told him more that one that I would deal with it and be OK in the end. I won't get into the long story of why we were uncommited but basically he has a commitment phobia and he has been hurt before and refuses to be hurt again and thus does now posess the ability ot love. We won't get into how I feel about him making decissions and telling me that they are fo rmy own good because it irks me greatly.
Anyway, I reallt don't want to lose the closeness and neither does he. Do you think it's possible for it to work?