I think we're missing the point here. I'm not punishing him for the porn at all. I didn't even tell him that I knew about it. He's punished for sneaking on, more for the lying about it than the sneaking on. Had he copped to it, I just would have talk to him about getting a good night's sleep and worried and sent him to a sleep clinic. He's always slept restlessly, and were it not for the puter being on, it would have been Discovery Channel at 3am. Nothing new. It's the lying and sneaking entirely. I wanna know when he's on and been on, and wtf he's up to when he's on the computer, period polka dot. So I can watch his activities, see when he's looking at barnyard shit and bombmaking so I can get him into therapy, and not acquire viruses and spyware just as gf said. He's 11. He shouldn't be unsupervised on the computer IMO. And won't be if I can help it.
The pron is no surprise, I found dad's Playboy under his mattress when he was wee. And my hand cream in his room.
It's ew, but waddever. I'm gettin over it. He's a boy. *shrug*
Thanks for the advice on the how to foil him and his buddies guys. I passworded both of the accounts and the screensaver, and will look up how to password the BIOS, along with what Tommy's said, and will I think start taking the modem or a cord to bed with me at night.
