Inkara1
Well-Known Member
So tomorrow (technically today) at 3 p.m., Christina and I sign papers for a little two-bedroom place up in Paso Robles.
Although she'll be helping with expenses too, I can afford the rent by myself if need be, and the rental agreement is month-to-month, meaning that if something were to happen, I wouldn't be in a world of hurt. I look at this way: I'd been talking about getting a new car, but now I'm just going to hang on to the old beater (not sure you can really call a 2000-model vehicle an "old beater") for a while longer, and the increase in rent is a good bit less than what I was looking at for car payments.
It also gives us a chance to see how we work in a living-together situation before making a commitment to marriage, to avoid making the same mistake I made in 2002. It also helps that she'll only be about a mile from her parents, and mine are about a quarter of a mile away.
Of course, I might be posting a good bit less for a bit, as I'll be in the process of moving and cleaning up the old place while working. I'll still come by, I just can't guarantee that I'll be able to stay up until 2 or 3 on a weeknight posting here.
Although she'll be helping with expenses too, I can afford the rent by myself if need be, and the rental agreement is month-to-month, meaning that if something were to happen, I wouldn't be in a world of hurt. I look at this way: I'd been talking about getting a new car, but now I'm just going to hang on to the old beater (not sure you can really call a 2000-model vehicle an "old beater") for a while longer, and the increase in rent is a good bit less than what I was looking at for car payments.
It also gives us a chance to see how we work in a living-together situation before making a commitment to marriage, to avoid making the same mistake I made in 2002. It also helps that she'll only be about a mile from her parents, and mine are about a quarter of a mile away.
Of course, I might be posting a good bit less for a bit, as I'll be in the process of moving and cleaning up the old place while working. I'll still come by, I just can't guarantee that I'll be able to stay up until 2 or 3 on a weeknight posting here.