Platonic intra-sexual relationships exist

HubbaHubba said:
If you weren't married or whatever and you knew her as a friend of 8years etc, would you considering nailing her? just like at all; doesnt even have to be like a top pick or anything, but you wouldnt complain if you two had sex and it didnt mess up the realationship

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Sure...why not. She's hot enough and smart enough, but that's not the point. The point is that there are always considerations, but despite them, it's platonic.
 
a13antichrist said:
Doesn't look like it to me...




I guess that would depend on your definition of repurcussions. Sex with her might mess up an otherwise great relationship. I would lose my wife and son... I don't think that any amount of sex is worth that. Point finale.
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That's taken out of context. I was stating that there are no instants where there are no repurcussions.

I'm not avoiding repurcussions, I'm just not taking them into effect within the arguement of Platonic relationships.

Does that make any sense at all?

Platonic is a choice, not the last option left after avoiding all possible repurcussions.
 
First, I have to admit that I only read Mr Bishop's initial post.

Yes, I do believe it is possible for a man and woman to be strictly platonic whilst sharing a certain kind of intimacy. One of my very best friends is male. We've been through a lot together. We hang out, discuss intelligent topics, discuss sex, discuss stoopid topics, sleep with each other, go camping together, help each other out, etc. Everyone (ku'u included) says we should get out of denial and just be together. The thing is, it's not like that with us. We're great friends. I'm not saying nothing sexual would ever happen between us (though it's highly unlikely), but within our friendship, it's just not like that. I don't know how to explain it except that the only difference between my friendship with him and my friendship with someone, say, ku'u, is that he happens to have a Y chromosome. :D

Now, I'm not saying this is possible for everyone. Some people can't distinguish between intimacy and sexuality; friendship and friends-with-benefitsship; etc.
 
In college I had a friend-with-benefits. :s Now I'm married to him.

But, I do believe in platonic relationships that are of mixed gendar, though. My roommate (a male) and I are good friends and nothing sexual has ever crossed our minds. At least not mine. :s And I'm sure not his, either. He's practically my little brother.
 
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