tonksy
New Member
I agree. I try to understand why some people can't quit but I just don't understand. Is it a chemical make-up thing? Is it a stress management thing? Is it a crutch?chcr said:If you don't want to quit, you won't. If you do want to quit you will. Period. Saying you want to but can't is a lie.
My ex tried time after time to quit and couldn't. I always had contempt for him about it but that seems unfair for me to do. It seems like there are sooo many people in the same boat on this issue that there must be something to it. What makes a perceived need or craving for something stronger than your will?