I support Toolbox 100%. Like ris said, HWC is not a people finding service... and rules are rules. If you don't enforce the rules as they were written, and allow a little bend here, where does the bending stop?
Maybe the guy did kill himself... people kill themselves everyday. When I was in Marine Corps boot camp, a guy in my sister platoon hung himself. Another guy jumped off the repelling tower and killed himself. Another guy unsuccessfully attempted suicide by slitting his wrists. Another guy took 30 tetracycline pills cause he wanted to die (obviously that guy wasn't too bright. Tetracycline is just an antibiotic).
I never met the two that succeeded in their suicides, but the other two I did after their failed attempts. While I am sympathetic, I have my own family that requires my emotional support. I can't afford to go giving out my heart to the family and friends of every single person that kills themselves.
Consider this:
Years ago, Utah got a reputation among the homeless community that we were good to homeless people. Next thing you know, Utah is getting overcrowded with homeless people. While we all feel sorry for them (thus the reason for our previous reputation), last I checked Jesus wasn't out here breaking a single loaf of bread to feed huge crowds. Even Jesus had to pick and choose... otherwise you spread yourself too thin.
There are places where people can go to find out whether a "friend" has died or not. A computer hardware forum is not one of them.