I agree with Leslie.
Noone said you COULDN'T post it, we said you SHOULDN'T post it.
A guy having his sister die when he was 2 of crib death is different than a parent having their child die of crib death. Yes, he has been told of it, knows that if it didn't happen he'd have a baby sister but he was 2, I am willing to be at the time he didn't understand what was going on and now he doesn't remember it except what he has been told. His parents however, they lived the nightmare and probably think of it everyday of their lives. Would you make a joke about people with cancer?? I would have said you had to much tact for that but now I am unsure. I can tell you though, if you did, I would be the one sitting here crying with the burning pain in the pit of my stomach that Les described, I know I would because it has happened to me...I've felt that pain when people have made rude and uncalled for jokes/comments about it...they didn't know about my dad when they did...doesn't mean it was ok and when they SAW my reaction they realized that such tasteless jokes DO hurt. S
So, inshort, noone is saying you CAN'T post these sorts of assholish, inconserate jokes all we're saying is PLEASE DON'T cause you don't know WHO might be sitting in front of their computer bawling their eyes out after reading it, or maybe even being so upset they have to go throw up (yeah, happened to me too). It might be someone you talk to on here everyday that you are hurting.
Think about it.